demmeri wrote:

it seems to me that emotionally, women don't mature until thier 30s...they fall for any old bullcrap that men tell them and are attracted to the wrong type of guys...they let thier emotions control thier lives and they allow themselves to be manipulated by any old body....yeah they pay bills, got the job and whatnot, but emotionally they'er still little girls...i find that a woman with a good spiritual backround usually reaches maturity sooner than yall 'loose" chicks... women have to get more control of thier emotions to become mature...guys are different...our goal is to gain more self control...we have a problem with expressing ourselves through aggresion and whatnot....not reaching out and trying to solve our problem on our own...and letting the cuncha lead our lives....our goal is to...man i dunno... what the hell am i talking about? 8-) (nessa)

Kinkee wrote:

Being a grown **** woman doesn't necessarily mean having to take on responsibilties. Yes I have responsibilites but I am also not on my own either. I realized I was a grown **** woman when I analyzed my life and grown from the experiences that I've been through. I am not the same person that I used to be. Maybe I didn't explain that good enough. But all that matters is that I know that I have matured into a grown **** woman. Don't tell my parents I said that though, they will try to flip the script lol

i agree. I think my experiences have helped me to grow into the woman i am. Scratch that, grow in the FINER WOMAN that i am . And it's not just about the experiences, but how i learned from them, matured, and progressed. But like Kee said...don't tell my momma that. Every now & then i can jump back. I'll always be momma's "lil bit" :-D

demmeri wrote:

it seems to me that emotionally, women don't mature until thier 30s...they fall for any old bullcrap that men tell them and are attracted to the wrong type of guys...they let thier emotions control thier lives and they allow themselves to be manipulated by any old body....yeah they pay bills, got the job and whatnot, but emotionally they'er still little girls...i find that a woman with a good spiritual backround usually reaches maturity sooner than yall 'loose" chicks... women have to get more control of thier emotions to become mature...guys are different...our goal is to gain more self control...we have a problem with expressing ourselves through aggresion and whatnot....not reaching out and trying to solve our problem on our own...and letting the cuncha lead our lives....our goal is to...man i dunno... what the hell am i talking about? 8-) (nessa)

MissJazzyAKA wrote:

demmeri wrote:

it seems to me that emotionally, women don't mature until thier 30s...they fall for any old bullcrap that men tell them and are attracted to the wrong type of guys...they let thier emotions control thier lives and they allow themselves to be manipulated by any old body....yeah they pay bills, got the job and whatnot, but emotionally they'er still little girls...i find that a woman with a good spiritual backround usually reaches maturity sooner than yall 'loose" chicks... women have to get more control of thier emotions to become mature...guys are different...our goal is to gain more self control...we have a problem with expressing ourselves through aggresion and whatnot....not reaching out and trying to solve our problem on our own...and letting the cuncha lead our lives....our goal is to...man i dunno... what the hell am i talking about? 8-) (nessa)

The fact remains...Humans are filled with emotions. Maybe, Women moreso than men but that's LIFE. Also, i think that experiences and the shullbit that women have to put up with play major parts in that. ------------------------------ I came to that realization a few years ago. The life experiences helped with molding me into the woman that i am.

demmeri wrote:

MissJazzyAKA wrote:

demmeri wrote:

it seems to me that emotionally, women don't mature until thier 30s...they fall for any old bullcrap that men tell them and are attracted to the wrong type of guys...they let thier emotions control thier lives and they allow themselves to be manipulated by any old body....yeah they pay bills, got the job and whatnot, but emotionally they'er still little girls...i find that a woman with a good spiritual backround usually reaches maturity sooner than yall 'loose" chicks... women have to get more control of thier emotions to become mature...guys are different...our goal is to gain more self control...we have a problem with expressing ourselves through aggresion and whatnot....not reaching out and trying to solve our problem on our own...and letting the cuncha lead our lives....our goal is to...man i dunno... what the hell am i talking about? 8-) (nessa)

The fact remains...Humans are filled with emotions. Maybe, Women moreso than men but that's LIFE. Also, i think that experiences and the shullbit that women have to put up with play major parts in that. ------------------------------ I came to that realization a few years ago. The life experiences helped with molding me into the woman that i am.

where have you been at and why do you have me sleeping on this cot? yeah but do i have a point about women being emotionally immature? i mean yeah you might be reponcible with paying bills, have own car, college degree, ect ect....yeah you can be RESPONCIBLE (i guess in my head, that's what's being seen as a grown **** women in this thread), but that doen't make you a grown **** woman....my niece cleans up her room every morning, does that make her a grown **** woman? but in my 2 years of being in the real world, i find that women with strong spiritual backrounds are more emotionaly mature than thier peers... what the hell am i talking about here? i just wanted to type to missjazzy AKA... 8-) (nessa) *waves* hey sweetie! :grin:

Tastey2222 wrote:

I thought I was a grown **** woman when I was a junior in college at SCSU living in my own place, paying my own bills, and going to school fulltime. But I was paying my bills with money my parents sent me, and I was still a child in many many ways. As a mature woman I now realize that being a grown **** woman mean knowing and respecting yourself. It's not about paying bills, or owning cars, or even homes. It's about waking up each morning knowing who you are, what you want, and what you will and will not accept from other people in your lives.

MsThang wrote:

demmeri wrote:

MissJazzyAKA wrote:

demmeri wrote:

it seems to me that emotionally, women don't mature until thier 30s...they fall for any old bullcrap that men tell them and are attracted to the wrong type of guys...they let thier emotions control thier lives and they allow themselves to be manipulated by any old body....yeah they pay bills, got the job and whatnot, but emotionally they'er still little girls...i find that a woman with a good spiritual backround usually reaches maturity sooner than yall 'loose" chicks... women have to get more control of thier emotions to become mature...guys are different...our goal is to gain more self control...we have a problem with expressing ourselves through aggresion and whatnot....not reaching out and trying to solve our problem on our own...and letting the cuncha lead our lives....our goal is to...man i dunno... what the hell am i talking about? 8-) (nessa)

The fact remains...Humans are filled with emotions. Maybe, Women moreso than men but that's LIFE. Also, i think that experiences and the shullbit that women have to put up with play major parts in that. ------------------------------ I came to that realization a few years ago. The life experiences helped with molding me into the woman that i am.

where have you been at and why do you have me sleeping on this cot? yeah but do i have a point about women being emotionally immature? i mean yeah you might be reponcible with paying bills, have own car, college degree, ect ect....yeah you can be RESPONCIBLE (i guess in my head, that's what's being seen as a grown **** women in this thread), but that doen't make you a grown **** woman....my niece cleans up her room every morning, does that make her a grown **** woman? but in my 2 years of being in the real world, i find that women with strong spiritual backrounds are more emotionaly mature than thier peers... what the hell am i talking about here? i just wanted to type to missjazzy AKA... 8-) (nessa) *waves* hey sweetie! :grin:

Emotions have very little to do with maturity and a female can have a strong spiritual background at the age of 17 but be immature in every other area. Women do not have immature emotions, to suggest that you would have to trace that to a physiological basis, and look at the brain and gender differnces and the truth is that males and females are not very different in any physiological sense, the differences all come from experiences, so you can not generalize a group of people who do not share the same experiences. It's funny how males comment of women's emotions and how some may display too many emotions in life as if its a weakness, yet if you were to come across a woman who was the opposite and showed very little emotion, and cared very little for how her behavior effects others, people would probably think she is a cold-hearted person and wouldn't want to be around her much. Often what makes a woman ... a great woman is her ability to express her emotions properly, and use those same emotions to fuel her strength, courage, motivation, and nurturing tendencies. I do agree that being a woman/man is not measure by the bills you pay, you can pay all of your bills consistently, two weeks before they are due, you may have good credit but you can still be selfish, irresponsible in other aspects, not learn from any of your mistakes, unableto hold yourself accountable for you actions, unmotivated, with little ambition, and think that life is just a big game that you play at the expense of others.

MsThang wrote:

Emotions have very little to do with maturity and a female can have a strong spiritual background at the age of 17 but be immature in every other area. Women do not have immature emotions, to suggest that you would have to trace that to a physiological basis, and look at the brain and gender differnces and the truth is that males and females are not very different in any physiological sense, the differences all come from experiences, so you can not generalize a group of people who do not share the same experiences. It's funny how males comment of women's emotions and how some may display too many emotions in life as if its a weakness, yet if you were to come across a woman who was the opposite and showed very little emotion, and cared very little for how her behavior effects others, people would probably think she is a cold-hearted person and wouldn't want to be around her much. Often what makes a woman ... a great woman is her ability to express her emotions properly, and use those same emotions to fuel her strength, courage, motivation, and nurturing tendencies. I do agree that being a woman/man is not measure by the bills you pay, you can pay all of your bills consistently, two weeks before they are due, you may have good credit but you can still be selfish, irresponsible in other aspects, not learn from any of your mistakes, unableto hold yourself accountable for you actions, unmotivated, with little ambition, and think that life is just a big game that you play at the expense of others.