I have a slight problem! There is soemthing people have been telling me not to have when i come to school......thats a boyfriend unless both of you all are coming together and if your relationship can with stand temptation. well i kind of let my broken heart speak before i thought about what was going on so now i have this guy that i really like and all but he goes to WSSU and i know that by the time we get to school our relationship isn't going to that strong. I am talking about that he is already saying that he is going to wie me up and lock me down. I want to be able to explore and find my way. Though I know that it might not get to much better than him. What should i do? Should i ride it out and see how things go when i get to school or should i end it now and tell him how i feel?
Well I feel like some of the others that replied. I feel if you love a person it shouldnt matter. People think breaking up with their boyfriends and girlfriens is the best thing to do when u enter college, but sometimes when u do do that you end up losing someone that you were blessed to have in the 1st place. Good ppl are hard to find now adayz and if u got a good person, dont let them go. Thats jsut my opinion
Well if you're really in love with that person no one else should matter no matter what circumstance you're in. If you're questioning if you're not going to be able to be faithful, then you need to re-evaluate if you're in love with this person or not.
I'm loving the shirt u have on in your avatar! LOL
I don't think that you should "Lock yourself down"...my boyfriend started school this past fall semster. We separated for a while when he began. That was OUR CHOICE, I knew he was gonna be in college, and surrounded by all types of women. I didn't wanna take the risk, so we agreed to give him some space as he adjusted to the "College Life". We ended up getting back together because obviously he didn't want to be with any woman from his school.
As for me, I don't know what we're gonna do. I'll be four hours away from him. He was only 1 hour and 30 mins from me. So we're gonna be in a new situation. But I think we'll be just fine. It's just a matter of balancing out being four hours from each other and school.
But my advice for you is just try to get some space from each other and see how you adjust to the whole being in college with a man thing.
If your thinking of yourself as being "locked down" then you probaly should not be together.
Yeah, for some reason the phrase "lock down" isn't sittin well with me. It's like viewing a relationship as imprisonment or something. And if that's how u view being with this guy, or any guy for that matter...maybe u should stay single. Being in a relationship is not a burden when u enjoy it. Rather there is distance or not.
Don't think just becuz u are single, things will be all peachy. Sometimes relationships add drama to your life, and just like in cafe's case, a relationship just might save u from drama. Becuz don't think for a **** that dudes are gonna be any better or more mature in college. U will still have the ones that want to play games. Being single can be an advantage and a disadvantage. No one on this site can give u the answer that only your heart knows.
i wouldn't be. especially since i wanna go from cali to dc. just too far. i think a person should be able to explore their options cuz some things change in college and you may not want the same things. i'd prefer to go unleashed, but that's me.
it doesnt matter what people tells you, please follow your heart. if yall were ment to be then you can work things out. dont let the distance between the both of you tear yall apart. its only temporaily the love yall
it doesnt matter what people tells you, please follow your heart. if yall were ment to be then you can work things out. dont let the distance between the both of you tear yall apart. its only temporaily the love yall have together last a lifetime
:grin: There's so many options you can take concerning your relationship. First of all Follow Your Heart. Talk To him Let Him Know How You Feel. If You Two Decide To Break It Off Let It Be A Mutual Thing. If He Really Cares About You No Other Female Will Come Between The Two Of You. He Can't " lock you down" That Would Push You Away From Him Not Closer To Him. Even When You Get To School YOu Will Have Haters. :???: Take It From Me Brush Your Shoulders Off and Keep Going. :razz: Be Happy. If Its Meant To be Its Meant To Be.
