And back on topic, seeing as my post above was more general. Like I said to Jazzy (which she actually agreed to), Angie, how can you just say men treat women like dirt. You being a girl, know full well that girls do the EXACT same thing. Come on now.
Sometimes people have to try to be pro-woman WITHOUT being anti-man.
Real talk.
Why do you insist on making this a lame vs. women thing?! Everytime a females makes a point, MOST of which are valid, you have something to say about it! We both have double standards but guys have been known to be dominate in this area...why is it like that??? I don't know but i blame the mindset. For women, it's kind of new(last few decades) because before we never had a voice in society.Back in the day women didn't have opinions if they did, it was moreso their husbands opinion.
MissJazzyAKA wrote: BigDaddy Tres wrote: Im worried that we, as a people, have allowed ourselves to condone bad behavior because of some idea that revenge is at any point in time justifiable unto anyone, innocent or guilty. People are perpetuating bad and dont give two sh*ts...
*throws his hands up*
But Im talking about grown **** people, not kids. Its a little late to be "instilling" good values into people like that...I do believe people need direction though, but if they dont know right by now then doing wrong is so natural... Whats the average answer if someone cheats?
F*ck someone else or blow up something or leave them.
Theres nothing wrong with working things out, and you dont HAVE to...but the wrong thing to do is to f*ck over everyone else because youre having a bad day. No amount of bad can become good. There just arent enough people teaching good doctrine to make me believe that things will change around any time soon.
"Nothing good can come of this." - Unknown
MissJazzyAKA wrote: laidbackfella wrote: I never had faith in women.
I don't put Sh*t past no one.
People dont trust until they have reason to. Thats being cautious and until more people do right I wouldnt blame anyone whos skeptical of inherent goodness.
That has nothing to do with inward perception; it comes from valid points of being hurt and betrayed - not from being naive.
MissJazzyAKA wrote: Why do you insist on making this a lame vs. women thing?! Everytime a females makes a point, MOST of which are valid, you have something to say about it! We both have double standards but guys have been known to be dominate in this area...why is it like that??? I don't know but i blame the mindset. For women, it's kind of new(last few decades) because before we never had a voice in society.Back in the day women didn't have opinions if they did, it was moreso their husbands opinion.
Just because men are
known to be dominant in this area doesn't mean that women don't do it just as much if not more. Girls do the EXACT thing we do, the only thing about it: They... don't... get... caught. And if they get caught: They deny... deny.... deny... deny. Trust me, this is personal experience speaking. Y'all are slick about that shyt, and you definately get kudos for that. But like I said:
Just because you don't get caught, doesn't mean it doesn't happen.
MissJazzyAKA wrote: Why do you insist on making this a lame vs. women thing?! Everytime a females makes a point, MOST of which are valid, you have something to say about it!
See the problem is... some of you (yes, this includes you :-) ) just will NOT admit you are wrong. It's like... you CAN'T be wrong. Yes,
some of your points are VERY good. And
some are VERY wrong.
Yet some of you (including you again :grin: ) just refuse to admit you are wrong(which is why i said you remind me of my brother so much). And what you do then by not accepting that you're wrong is that you make comments to try to either a)flip the script b)change the topic by bringing something that's been said before c)avoid the question, and the most common d) contradict yourself to the
MAX...
I'm sorry, but I just call a spade a spade.
Ain't nobody right all of the time. Hell... i'm wrong a LOT of the time. It ain't nothing, that's the only way I can learn.
