I dont know what it is about the things that us guys go through but are women becoming more and more...
Whats the word....
Dispensible?
Not me personally, but it seems like all of my good guy friends are being sh*tted on. Good guys with bright futures who could have anyone decide to take chances on women who start out great and find some way to not only f*ck sh*t up, but make it seem like its their fault.
*inhale* Ive never seen so many unfaithful b*tches in my life. Treating men like pieces of meat without feelings...Im trying to keep my boys in line, but Im afriad they are going to become players and I wont be able to say anything that will change them around. I dont know if I want to.
Cuz im sick to my stomach. Physically upset.
Anyways, comments...
I'm not really losing faith in womenkind I'm just realizing that their not innocent. I don't that we can use the justification of "their just getting payback". That's uhhhh.....yea, trash. No matter was the reason or purpose pettiness is pettiness. The reason doesn't matter. If a women goes and dogs out a guy who isn't the type to ever cheat or anything like that then how can she be justified? Vice verse w/ a male. Now if a guy thats cheated on a billion girls gets a taste of his own medicine thats just coming back to him, but at the same time the women isn't justified. Vice verse w/ males. The thing about it is that it **** too, because now it's starting to become hard to find a woman that acts like a woman and treats a man like a man. It's like women don't want a man who takes control and takes care of them (I'm not talking financially, cause I'm sure this goes alot deeper than money). Now what I think about all of this is that women need to chill with the double standards and stop acting so innocent. Your fellow women are plain and simple becoming just as doggish as men.
One thing that I can say thats factual is the fact that more men do cheat on women because more men have a mind that is located below their waste rather then in their skull while women run moreso on emotions, although this has changed down through the years.
But bottom line- neither male nor female is justified for their wrongdoing, and it really doesn't matter because by the end both will get theirs for what they did.
Now what I think about all of this is that women need to chill with the double standards and stop acting so innocent. .
:???: um. double standard? where are the double standards in this thread ::goes back and reads thread::
like i thought. the only double standards are coming from the men. not one woman said that this was right. we said it's justified. do your research guys. it's been proven that males are more likely to be unfaithful to their significant other than females. now that the SOME females are doing it, you are "losing faith in womankind" give me a break.
Im worried that we, as a people, have allowed ourselves to condone bad behavior because of some idea that revenge is at any point in time justifiable unto anyone, innocent or guilty. People are perpetuating bad and dont give two sh*ts...
*throws his hands up*
Im worried that we, as a people, have allowed ourselves to condone bad behavior because of some idea that revenge is at any point in time justifiable unto anyone, innocent or guilty. People are perpetuating bad and dont give two sh*ts...
*throws his hands up*
revenge is a very natural defense mechanism. i never said it was right, just natural. some guys deserve it... point blank.
Im worried that we, as a people, have allowed ourselves to condone bad behavior because of some idea that revenge is at any point in time justifiable unto anyone, innocent or guilty. People are perpetuating bad and dont give two sh*ts...
*throws his hands up*
Revenge is usually the only way someone can express how they feel. Maybe, if they teach kids at an earlier age about dealing with anger, we wouldn't have this problem.
And back on topic, seeing as my post above was more general. Like I said to Jazzy (which she actually agreed to), Angie, how can you just say men treat women like dirt. You being a girl, know full well that girls do the EXACT same thing. Come on now.
Sometimes people have to try to be pro-woman WITHOUT being anti-man.
Real talk.
Why do you insist on making this a lame vs. women thing?! Everytime a females makes a point, MOST of which are valid, you have something to say about it! We both have double standards but guys have been known to be dominate in this area...why is it like that??? I don't know but i blame the mindset. For women, it's kind of new(last few decades) because before we never had a voice in society.Back in the day women didn't have opinions if they did, it was moreso their husbands opinion.
Im worried that we, as a people, have allowed ourselves to condone bad behavior because of some idea that revenge is at any point in time justifiable unto anyone, innocent or guilty. People are perpetuating bad and dont give two sh*ts...
*throws his hands up*
Revenge is usually the only way someone can express how they feel. Maybe, if they teach kids at an earlier age about dealing with anger, we wouldn't have this problem.
But Im talking about grown **** people, not kids. Its a little late to be "instilling" good values into people like that...I do believe people need direction though, but if they dont know right by now then doing wrong is so natural... Whats the average answer if someone cheats?
F*ck someone else or blow up something or leave them.
Theres nothing wrong with working things out, and you dont HAVE to...but the wrong thing to do is to f*ck over everyone else because youre having a bad day. No amount of bad can become good. There just arent enough people teaching good doctrine to make me believe that things will change around any time soon.
"Nothing good can come of this." - Unknown
I never had faith in women.
I don't put Sh*t past no one.
That's why you'll never have sucess in a relationship. Also, people who don't trust anyone usually don't trust themselves.
People dont trust until they have reason to. Thats being cautious and until more people do right I wouldnt blame anyone whos skeptical of inherent goodness.
That has nothing to do with inward perception; it comes from valid points of being hurt and betrayed - not from being naive.
