lol u r never anything less than a riot to me :lol:
demmeri wrote:
but i dunno if they do something major, stealing, lying, disrepecting me or their mother (stacy dash...or chick that can do a split...or white girl)...they're gonna get it...
*smh*as for everything else you said....
I definitely do agree that physical discipline HAS to exist in the home.....not physical abuse....physical discipline....
Because like you said, we've seen what lack thereof....has done for the children of today....not good....not good at all...
And particularly for the generations that are yet to be....they gonna be some lil' BAD @$$es (even worse than be4), we all know this.....unless we rear them like most of us were reared....
However...
I don't agree with what you said about you being the only disciplinarian....
I've known many people who were disciplined physically by either both parents...or just their mothers....and they ended up coming out just fine....
I can't remember where I heard this....but there was a mother who allowed that to happen in her home....like, the whole time her children were growing up, she always let the father get 'em when he'd get home.....and somewhere along the line, she felt she was no longer respected by the children....'cause they thought they could get away with a whole lot more around mama....and knew BETTER, when it came to daddy.....
She felt they didn't have for her that same respect for a parent that a child is supposed to have....that they had for their father...
And I'm not havin' that....
Knowing me, it'll probably be hard to physically discipline my children, lol...but....I know you gotta do what you gotta do.....and okay, maybe my husband can be the primary disciplinarian....hmmm, I don't know....but I want to receive the same respect from them as he receives....
and finally, i'm gonna REALLY need for you to STOP BLAMING EVERY DAMN THING ON ****!! i've refrained from saying this, but damn HALF the stuff you say aren't even because of ****...they're because of your little conservative buddies....or both....
you're hilarious....
I will whoop my kids but only when its REALLY necessary. I would prefer just putting them on punishment for a week so they can think about what they did and why they wont do it again. But I agree, sometimes a whoopin IS necessary. Its sumthing I wouldnt wanna do, and I can see myself being one of those moms who just gave her son/daughter a whoopin, and going to my room and getting emotional afterwards cause it would hurt me to see me have to physically hurt my child for them to behave. Hopefully, my child will be well behaved like I was and they wont have to get beat or punished often, cause like I said in the other thread...I only got 2 whoopins in my whole life.
I will whoop my kids but only when its REALLY necessary. I would prefer just putting them on punishment for a week so they can think about what they did and why they wont do it again. But I agree, sometimes a whoopin IS necessary. Its sumthing I wouldnt wanna do, and I can see myself being one of those moms who just gave her son/daughter a whoopin, and going to my room and getting emotional afterwards cause it would hurt me to see me have to physically hurt my child for them to behave. Hopefully, my child will be well behaved like I was and they wont have to get beat or punished often, cause like I said in the other thread...I only got 2 whoopins in my whole life.
Punishment isnt shyt. All is does is expand upon a childs creativity. Doesnt make em behave more. Cuz hell if you make ya child stay in his room wit no TV and no playstation they gonna start to draw or somethin. Then they gonna learn to like to draw so punishment wouldnt be nothin for them. You gotta beat that ****... I kno everytime I got punished I would just go to sleep or read. So it wasnt nothin to me
I will whoop my kids but only when its REALLY necessary. I would prefer just putting them on punishment for a week so they can think about what they did and why they wont do it again. But I agree, sometimes a whoopin IS necessary. Its sumthing I wouldnt wanna do, and I can see myself being one of those moms who just gave her son/daughter a whoopin, and going to my room and getting emotional afterwards cause it would hurt me to see me have to physically hurt my child for them to behave. Hopefully, my child will be well behaved like I was and they wont have to get beat or punished often, cause like I said in the other thread...I only got 2 whoopins in my whole life.
Punishment isnt shyt. All is does is expand upon a childs creativity. Doesnt make em behave more. Cuz hell if you make ya child stay in his room wit no TV and no playstation they gonna start to draw or somethin. Then they gonna learn to like to draw so punishment wouldnt be nothin for them. You gotta beat that ****... I kno everytime I got punished I would just go to sleep or read. So it wasnt nothin to me
Yea I see what you sayin....but I know PLENTY of people who said that when they were younger they preferd beatings over punishment cause a beating only last a few minutes and when its done they still get to go outside and play. They aint learn to dp better, they just got use to getting that **** beat where it didnt even affect them no more..when they were on punishment they didnt get to do nuthing fun whatsoever...so if they got punishment they were literally forced to be bored for DAYS at a time. I know plenty of kids now who say they prefer beatings over punishment cause like i said, the beating only last a few minutes and then you back to doin what you want, while the punishment takes away all fun while you forced to think about what you did and why you not gonna do it no more so you dont gotta be stuck in your room again for another week.
I will whoop my kids but only when its REALLY necessary. I would prefer just putting them on punishment for a week so they can think about what they did and why they wont do it again. But I agree, sometimes a whoopin IS necessary. Its sumthing I wouldnt wanna do, and I can see myself being one of those moms who just gave her son/daughter a whoopin, and going to my room and getting emotional afterwards cause it would hurt me to see me have to physically hurt my child for them to behave. Hopefully, my child will be well behaved like I was and they wont have to get beat or punished often, cause like I said in the other thread...I only got 2 whoopins in my whole life.
Punishment isnt shyt. All is does is expand upon a childs creativity. Doesnt make em behave more. Cuz hell if you make ya child stay in his room wit no TV and no playstation they gonna start to draw or somethin. Then they gonna learn to like to draw so punishment wouldnt be nothin for them. You gotta beat that ****... I kno everytime I got punished I would just go to sleep or read. So it wasnt nothin to me
Yea I see what you sayin....but I know PLENTY of people who said that when they were younger they preferd beatings over punishment cause a beating only last a few minutes and when its done they still get to go outside and play. They aint learn to dp better, they just got use to getting that **** beat where it didnt even affect them no more..when they were on punishment they didnt get to do nuthing fun whatsoever...so if they got punishment they were literally forced to be bored for DAYS at a time. I know plenty of kids now who say they prefer beatings over punishment cause like i said, the beating only last a few minutes and then you back to doin what you want, while the punishment takes away all fun while you forced to think about what you did and why you not gonna do it no more so you dont gotta be stuck in your room again for another week.
They werent gettin beat right then..... They aint get beat then sent outside while they were still cryin and have all thier friends laugh at them
Well seeing as how I am truly afraid of giving birth, I don't really want kids, but if it should happen, I will discipline my kids.
There is a difference between whooping your children abd beating them. If youpr child is scared to be around you, then that is when you need to rethink the way you discipline your child. I know that time out isn't always the answer, but every time you move the child shouldn't flinch either. It will all be done with reason.
I won't beat them, that wouldn't be good since I am a big man.
I would discpline them and talk to them, but if they get out of hand, then I'll let my wife handle them. I'll probably whoop them out of anger and that's not good.
I've NEVER gotten a beating in my life...ever, and i came out perfectly fine so far. I have a 4.0 GPA, I've never taken a puff of anything, I dont drink, I dont cut classes, I dont sleep around, and I'm def. not crazy, so i guess it just depends on what type of person you are. I dont know how I'm going to dicipline my children. My mother never beat me so how would it sound for me to start whooping my kids **** and my mother never touched me.
I think it all depends on the kid and how they are. Whatever method I use tho trust me they gone be getting smashed......in love of course. It's just that when I see kids actin up I ALWAYS ALWAYS just think into the future like....they gone be doin the same things maybe even worst when they get older if they don't really learn that what they were doin is bad. It's all out of teaching to me. I feel the chosen1 in discplining them then talking to them tho. You gotta let them know why they gettin disciplined. Hopefully they won't still be screwin up bad when they get older tho. If I have a son and he's just trippin I won't hesitate to hand out body shots. If my children anything like me tho they learn quick.
My kids will be getting whoopings and punishments. I wasn't really bad enough to get whoopings, but I did get my **** snatched up on a couple of occasions.
There is no way my kids will grow up to be out of control hooligans. You won't ever see me on Nanny 911 or some other dumb **** show for people who can't control their kids.
