Hey. it's me again. Now I was at Six Flags today and I came to the conclusion that Im just freakin un aproachable and I dont want to be.
Now not to toot my own horn but Im pretty and stuff but not a lot of guys try to talk to me. When somebody do they be like they thought I was gonna be mean or try to play them. I cant help it I have a mean face. I could be havin a perfect day and somebody be like "why dont u try to smile" and I dont even be mad. My mother has a mean face too and is nice. This is crazy Im sick of being single but no one comes up to me (or at least no one I want to)
Anybody else have this problem. How do u have a friendly face?
Hey. it's me again. Now I was at Six Flags today and I came to the conclusion that Im just freakin un aproachable and I dont want to be.
Now not to toot my own horn but Im pretty and stuff but not a lot of guys try to talk to me. When somebody do they be like they thought I was gonna be mean or try to play them. I cant help it I have a mean face. I could be havin a perfect day and somebody be like "why dont u try to smile" and I dont even be mad. My mother has a mean face too and is nice. This is crazy Im sick of being single but no one comes up to me (or at least no one I want to)
Anybody else have this problem. How do u have a friendly face?
Its kinda vice versa with me. I'm pretty and dudes here just think that cause you're pretty "you're going" and they can just have u and do anything to u. So basically a **** can see me coming out of a store at the mall and try to talk to me. I had one **** follow me and tried to talk to me and he was like old. He had to be like 30 something and im like only 17 and he was like, do u talk to older dudes and Im like nah, sorry! But most dudes now who i am because everyone knows my popz here so they try to stay away from me but every now and then its some bold dudes!
Hey. it's me again. Now I was at Six Flags today and I came to the conclusion that Im just freakin un aproachable and I dont want to be.
Now not to toot my own horn but Im pretty and stuff but not a lot of guys try to talk to me. When somebody do they be like they thought I was gonna be mean or try to play them. I cant help it I have a mean face. I could be havin a perfect day and somebody be like "why dont u try to smile" and I dont even be mad. My mother has a mean face too and is nice. This is crazy Im sick of being single but no one comes up to me (or at least no one I want to)
Anybody else have this problem. How do u have a friendly face?
dont worry i'll approach u when we get to howard
look out miss tana.
i used to have the same problem. i dont have a mean face, i have a serious one. if you see a guy you are into, just smile. you can never lose when you smile. your eyes can say a lot too.
i get the same thing all the time. but then if i was to walk around cheesing all the time people would think i was crazy. if i wanna have a "nice" face i usually think about something that made me laugh and i look a little happier.
Would you really want a man that was intimidated by your facial expression and he's not even talking to you?
If he doesn't think he can bring a smile to your face it's probably best that he stays wherever he is.
What would happen when he sees his own shadow?
man that was an intelligent reply
Cosign. That is a good point.
On the other side tho. There are prolly a lot of dudes who are very confident to approach you, but just don't even want to because they think you're just angry, mad, or sad or whatever, so they just don't even wanna have you messin up their mood and/or deal with a girl wit a bad attitude. Then there's dudes who see you lookin mad but all they want is to smash so they approach you anyway not caring if they're rejected or not.
So my advice to you so you avoid all these false presumptions since you have a naturally mean look, is that you should just have a regular face. Don't even try real hard to smile, just try not to look mean. Us men don't see anything wrong wit a regular expression.
Woooo I can definately identify with you on this issue. I used to think that maybe I wasn't being approached by males because I didn't look good enough or maybe the other girls who were being approached were prettier than me. But I had to stop blaming myself, cause I know I'm not ****.
I think facial expression does have a lot to do with it, because if I'm walking down the street by myself I will have on the most serious expression even if I'm in a good mood. Dudes always talkin about "Smile sweetheart, or whas wrong?" I dunno why but I just can't walk down the street by myself smiling, I feel like an idiot lol. I just think that males don't approach me because something about me must be intimidating.
I have a serious face too. Grl don't be scared to approach a guy beacause some guys are scared to approach a grl. I mean if boys can do it grls can to u know wat I mean. Somebody's out there for you, you just have to wait till he shows up at the right time.
All I can say is be yourself to the fullest and then if you kow that you are doing that than you have nothing to worry about, because when the time is right a guy will approach you. I know for a fact though from talking to some of my guy friends that if a female gives off a certain vibe that she does not want to be bothered than most guys wont bother that female. I guess I use to feel like that and wounder why guys did not always approach me. I looked at myself then and noticed how :grin:
Girl, people used to tell me the same thing. U just have to be a little mindful when you are around people. Just brighten up your face. I know you don't mean any harm, cuz I know I didn't mean any harm, thats just the way you look. Even still, if the dude want you bad enough or if that is the guy u are supposed to talk to, they will come your way. You can learn a lot about a dude based on their reasons for not approaching you.
i used to have the same problem. i dont have a mean face, i have a serious one. if you see a guy you are into, just smile. you can never lose when you smile. your eyes can say a lot too.
