The idea from this topic came during a conversation with a dude, he asked me what i wouldnt stand for from a man.
So, Ladies my question to ya'll is this: what are some things you just won't stand for off your man? whether big or small, you just couldnt be with a man that did this
Personally, I cant have a man that disrespects me by calling me out my name, cheats on me, or hits me. There are other things too but I'll list them later.
Fellas, feel free to answer this question as well.
I can not be with a Man if:
He smokes or drinks
He does not have a relationship with God
He is not clean cut and well groomed
He plays Games
he is not selfsufficient
Mature and Honest
he is dull and boring
lastly if he is not affectionante and loving towards me
or yeah and if he is not ambitious
damn u know what? It's kinda funny that most of the things posted by ppl, alot of us have tolerated in the past because we "loved" those guys. Then again, I guess that's why we posted them...cause we know what we have tolerated in the past and won't tolerate in the future. I won't lie, I've done alot of dumb stuff for love, and I won't say that I won't ever do anything dumb again, it's not guaranteed that I won't make mistakes. But then again, if a dude hits me, disrepects me in ANYWAY, tries to bring me down (in addition to himself) or cheats/lies/steals with me, I'm out!
pretty much everything everyone has already said. Don't wanna be redundant
^^^I'm with her on this
this is true.
an older friend told me that it was worse things that could happen compared to a man cheating on you and that females needed to get over that.
i'on get it :???: at all.
I can't be with a man that
is an alcoholic
smokes
habitual liar
doesn't respect me
has low self esteem
isn't a hardworker
doesn't take care of himself
doesn't love God and have a relationship with him
disrespects his mother
cheats
lazy
unkept
I agree with basically what everyone said here... it's interesting how we all basically want the same thing.. and some of us how found that person and others haven't... maybe he/she is right under our nose and we just fail to acknowledge that
