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Question 4 greeks... Posted on 07-14-2005
Puhleasee

ok...so i have a problem and i need some opinions ..... i'm interested in an organization, but i dont really know who the members are.....but they dont wear any nalia to acknowledge their affiliation...and they also dont hold programs at all to help interested members a chance to get to kno them....so i'm lost and i'm afraid my chance to join this org may pass by since i dont kno any members... ok..i kno 1 member but they seem to have an attitude so i'm afraid to approach them cuz i dont kno if they're havin a bad day or sumthin...should i jus take the chance wen i get to skool and approach this person or wat..i'm lost...please help me out....
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Blutifully Human from Washington, DC replied on 07-15-2005 03:08AM [Reply]

And they haven't held a single event on campus? I'm not just talkin about interest meetings...i mean, no forums...no community service...no parties...no nothing? That seems awfully odd to me :???:. Maybe u missed the flyers. Some orgs purposely don't put up a whole bunch.
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Hypnotik Ivy from Pasadena, CA replied on 07-15-2005 05:18AM [Reply]

Blutifully Human wrote:
And they haven't held a single event on campus? I'm not just talkin about interest meetings...i mean, no forums...no community service...no parties...no nothing? That seems awfully odd to me :???:. Maybe u missed the flyers. Some orgs purposely don't put up a whole bunch.
That is very odd, an org not having any sort of programs, or even parties. I agree, or they may put their flyers up in low populated areas. Not to mention, interests tend to take flyers down the same day they go up. Puhleasee, I advise you to keep your eyes and ears open you just might be missing out on their events and not knowing it. But go ahead an approach the member that you know of, the members responce may very. Some members of orgs want you to approach them (in a discrete matter of course), so they will know who you are. Others feel that they will already know you're interested by the events that you come to and your dedication. And as far as the member having a stank attitude... oh well :twisted: . Thats how life is, you have to deal with people you may not like sometimes. But its your choice. Don't be scuuurrrred..... :frighten:
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replied on 07-15-2005 10:54AM [Reply]
Puhleasee wrote:
ok...so i have a problem and i need some opinions ..... i'm interested in an organization, but i dont really know who the members are.....but they dont wear any nalia to acknowledge their affiliation...and they also dont hold programs at all to help interested members a chance to get to kno them....so i'm lost and i'm afraid my chance to join this org may pass by since i dont kno any members... ok..i kno 1 member but they seem to have an attitude so i'm afraid to approach them cuz i dont kno if they're havin a bad day or sumthin...should i jus take the chance wen i get to skool and approach this person or wat..i'm lost...please help me out....
Is it just me or does it seem that this post seems a liitle suspect....
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ManifestDSTiny33 replied on 07-15-2005 11:23AM [Reply]
^^^ LOL.. it did, but oh well... I'm mad that she knows how many crossed, but doesn't know who they are.... WHAT YEAR ARE YOU BOO? Did you see their show? Cuz anyone can wear the mess outta some colors and pearls and you'd feel stupid approaching 'em if they weren't who you thought they were... What ComplAKAted and Kenya said is very true.. you probably just missed the flyers.. it is imperative to keep your eyes and ears on alert, cuz you probably aren't the only one interested at your campus, and I doubt that people will make it easier to find info.. but nonetheless, ask discreetly, and you may find the answers that you seek.
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replied on 07-15-2005 01:40PM [Reply]
well actually its not suspect cuz eryone knows and alleged # on how many people crossed...they didnt have a probate...that may be weird too...but the org i like and another one havent had probates since i ben at skool... But i'm a Junior this yr coming up... But also at my skool we dont have alot of parties...we have like one a month... and no they DEFINITELY dont hold any programs..i think its weird too..but hey who am i....i'm alwayz all over campus i kno that orgs put up flyers but i'm out all day at skool...and i see none...i keep my eyes and ears open..but i dont listen to much of the talk on campus cuz its usually false... and i know that i'mma have to end up dealing with people i might not like or watever thats y i'm jus gonna suck it up and talk to the person i kno of...cuz actually the person might be kool.....and i kno to be discrete wen goin to approach some1 about something like this..which i will do...thanx alot people......
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AKAtude from brooklyn, NY replied on 07-15-2005 02:11PM [Reply]
Im glad that you posted this...BUT my question to you is...why would you want to join an org on your campus that isnt doing ANYTHING? (as u stated)...no service, no programs,NOTHING... I am utterly confused
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La replied on 07-15-2005 02:23PM [Reply]
AKAtude wrote:
Im glad that you posted this...BUT my question to you is...why would you want to join an org on your campus that isnt doing ANYTHING? (as u stated)...no service, no programs,NOTHING... I am utterly confused
good point...
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cafe-aulait replied on 07-15-2005 02:27PM [Reply]
F.A.T.A.L wrote:
AKAtude wrote:
Im glad that you posted this...BUT my question to you is...why would you want to join an org on your campus that isnt doing ANYTHING? (as u stated)...no service, no programs,NOTHING... I am utterly confused
good point...
I agree. I was thinking the same thing... This thread is *gives two thumbs down*
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ManifestDSTiny33 replied on 07-15-2005 02:34PM [Reply]
^^^^^LOL.. I concur w/ these lovely ladies...
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ManifestDSTiny33 replied on 07-15-2005 02:34PM [Reply]
^^^^^LOL.. I concur w/ these lovely ladies...
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