List the qualites in a man that you REALLY look for. If you dont REALLY look to see how good a person he is, dont put it in the list. When you first meet a guy, and you start sizing him up to see what he's like, what do you REALLY look for?
Ya'll be honest.
PHYSICALLY
:arrow: Aight to Cute. I gotta be able to look at you without being digusted. If he is aight..and his personality is on point it will make him cuter to me over time
:arrow: Nice skin...I dont know...but Ive always been blessed with clear skin, so I cant have no man with craters all over his face. :???:
:arrow: Nice smile and teeth
:arrow: NICE LIPS !!!!!
:arrow: Tall is what i will always prefer but i have talked to dudes like 5'6...
PERSONALITY
:arrow: He HAS to be a Christian...theres no gettin around that
:arrow: Great sense of humor. I love to laugh, so if u keep me smilin thats MAD cool points right there...
:arrow: Is goal oriented and focused...He just " not in college " He is in college and has a plan for where he plans to be in such and such years and workin hard towards that
:arrow: Likes to have fun and try new things
:arrow: Respects himself and me
PHYSICALLY
:arrow: Aight to Cute. I gotta be able to look at you without being digusted. If he is aight..and his personality is on point it will make him cuter to me over time
:arrow: Nice skin...I dont know...but Ive always been blessed with clear skin, so I cant have no man with craters all over his face. :???:
:arrow: Nice smile and teeth
:arrow: NICE LIPS !!!!!
:arrow: Tall is what i will always prefer but i have talked to dudes like 5'6...
PERSONALITY
:arrow: He HAS to be a Christian...theres no gettin around that
:arrow: Great sense of humor. I love to laugh, so if u keep me smilin thats MAD cool points right there...
:arrow: Is goal oriented and focused...He just " not in college " He is in college and has a plan for where he plans to be in such and such years and workin hard towards that
:arrow: Likes to have fun and try new things
:arrow: Respects himself and me
PHYSICALLY
:arrow: Aight to Cute. I gotta be able to look at you without being digusted. If he is aight..and his personality is on point it will make him cuter to me over time
:arrow: Nice skin...I dont know...but Ive always been blessed with clear skin, so I cant have no man with craters all over his face. :???:
:arrow: Nice smile and teeth
:arrow: NICE LIPS !!!!!
:arrow: Tall is what i will always prefer but i have talked to dudes like 5'6...
PERSONALITY
:arrow: He HAS to be a Christian...theres no gettin around that
:arrow: Great sense of humor. I love to laugh, so if u keep me smilin thats MAD cool points right there...
:arrow: Is goal oriented and focused...He just " not in college " He is in college and has a plan for where he plans to be in such and such years and workin hard towards that
:arrow: Likes to have fun and try new things
:arrow: Respects himself and me
your skin isnt clearer than mines.
its either just as clear or clearer than yours...but it definitely aint worse.
PHYSICALLY
:arrow: Aight to Cute. I gotta be able to look at you without being digusted. If he is aight..and his personality is on point it will make him cuter to me over time
:arrow: Nice skin...I dont know...but Ive always been blessed with clear skin, so I cant have no man with craters all over his face. :???:
:arrow: Tall
PERSONALITY
:arrow: He HAS to be a Christian...theres no gettin around that
:arrow: Great sense of humor. I love to laugh, so if u keep me smilin thats MAD cool points right there...
:arrow: Is goal oriented and focused...He just " not in college " He is in college and has a plan for where he plans to be in such and such years and workin hard towards that
:arrow: Likes to have fun and try new things
:arrow: Respects himself and me
I concur... I think you put it into better words than I did....
I have NO idea how I didn't remember to put down the fact about his faith.. that has to come out in his aura... If he ain't got Jesus, he ain't got me.. but most of all, I need a man strong enought for me to happily stand beside or behind him... He needs to be about his business... It takes a lot for me to hand ove rthe reins to a man.. so he gotta be man enough for me to want to do that....
+many times a guys approach gives me my first impression of him ( . . . . so if he's like, "yo shorty, can i get ur numba?" then he just lost mad respect & probably won't get the digits
+appearance: he aint gotta be all claean & neat, cuz I like a lil dirt especially if u can tell he's comin from work, playin basketball, or workin out, but if he stinks . . . . .
+first conversations betta let me kno that he is focused, has some goals AND a plan for how to accomplish them (mad dudes be talkin all these goals with no means to get there)
+conversation should include more than money & should not include him smokin weed all day, gettin high, gettin ****, etc
. . . .cant think of anymore right now
+many times a guys approach gives me my first impression of him ( . . . . so if he's like, "yo shorty, can i get ur numba?" then he just lost mad respect & probably won't get the digits
The important things that I look for in a guy when I first meet him is:
whether he is confident but not cocky
If he is a christian
If he is sweet, Honest, and sincere
He has to come at me with respect and based on his approach is how I know what he is about.
I look at how respectful he is, how well grounded he is too.
Appearance does make a difference if he is clean cut than I can tell he likes to take care of himself.
If he asks me certain questions when meets me than I can tell he is somewhat interested in me and who I am as a person.
I also look at how outgoing he is. THis can also help me to figure out how ambitious he is.
If he talks to me with ease and is not trying to show off that lets me know he is real and he is secure anough to be himself.
