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Can we just be friends? Posted on 07-17-2005
Stealth

I wanted to know what everybody thought about the age old question: Is it possible for men and women to be platonic friends? I believe that it's, of course, possible, although, two can only be so close without fallin for each other. With that being said, IMO it's impossible for a man and a woman to be BEST friends without fallin for each other. What yall think?
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cafe-aulait replied on 07-18-2005 11:15AM [Reply]
KiLLaTraV wrote:
i know it can. i got this girl whove i known since middle school..and now we go to the same college...weve worked the same job, shes cooked for me, and we like best friends. we bout to go get our next tattos together... i cant even look @ her like that..shes like a sister to me, and its the same 4 her... sure you can have a female friend with no feelings...cause this girl i love her but im not IN love w/ her...
AWWWW.... Watch yall end up getting married. I got a dub on it. And to answer the question... WileCoyote is correct. I have a lot of male associates, BUT my friendships with male always seem to mutate into something else unfortunately. Usually the guy can't "just be friends" and they start doing things that make me uncomfortable. I have so many examples of this I could go on forever.
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cafe-aulait replied on 07-18-2005 11:16AM [Reply]
F.A.T.A.L wrote:
KiLLaTraV wrote:
i know it can. i got this girl whove i known since middle school..and now we go to the same college...weve worked the same job, shes cooked for me, and we like best friends. we bout to go get our next tattos together... i cant even look @ her like that..shes like a sister to me, and its the same 4 her...
smh, Nah yall gonna end up gettin married....watch
Dang I typed that at the same time!
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La replied on 07-18-2005 11:17AM [Reply]
cafe-aulait wrote:
F.A.T.A.L wrote:
KiLLaTraV wrote:
i know it can. i got this girl whove i known since middle school..and now we go to the same college...weve worked the same job, shes cooked for me, and we like best friends. we bout to go get our next tattos together... i cant even look @ her like that..shes like a sister to me, and its the same 4 her...
smh, Nah yall gonna end up gettin married....watch
Dang I typed that at the same time!
lol, great minds think alike
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M o o N i e from Hartford, CT replied on 07-18-2005 11:19AM [Reply]

cafe-aulait wrote:
F.A.T.A.L wrote:
KiLLaTraV wrote:
i know it can. i got this girl whove i known since middle school..and now we go to the same college...weve worked the same job, shes cooked for me, and we like best friends. we bout to go get our next tattos together... i cant even look @ her like that..shes like a sister to me, and its the same 4 her...
smh, Nah yall gonna end up gettin married....watch
Dang I typed that at the same time!
nah we aint bout to get married...trust me we wont... but i do want a girl w/ a personality similar to hers...
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La replied on 07-18-2005 11:24AM [Reply]
KiLLaTraV wrote:
cafe-aulait wrote:
F.A.T.A.L wrote:
KiLLaTraV wrote:
i know it can. i got this girl whove i known since middle school..and now we go to the same college...weve worked the same job, shes cooked for me, and we like best friends. we bout to go get our next tattos together... i cant even look @ her like that..shes like a sister to me, and its the same 4 her...
smh, Nah yall gonna end up gettin married....watch
Dang I typed that at the same time!
nah we aint bout to get married...trust me we wont... but i do want a girl w/ a personality similar to hers...
lol...u just proved my point. When you see there is gonna be no other girl out there like her, and the type of girl you been wantin has been right in front of your face for all these years it will just make sense. Im a believer in fate, and " friend " just dont ironically know each other since middle school, work together, go to the same college out of state, spend alotta time together as " just friends. " Yall feelings for each other will surely come out eventually. Im sure about that.
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M o o N i e from Hartford, CT replied on 07-18-2005 12:27PM [Reply]

F.A.T.A.L wrote:
KiLLaTraV wrote:
cafe-aulait wrote:
F.A.T.A.L wrote:
KiLLaTraV wrote:
i know it can. i got this girl whove i known since middle school..and now we go to the same college...weve worked the same job, shes cooked for me, and we like best friends. we bout to go get our next tattos together... i cant even look @ her like that..shes like a sister to me, and its the same 4 her...
smh, Nah yall gonna end up gettin married....watch
Dang I typed that at the same time!
nah we aint bout to get married...trust me we wont... but i do want a girl w/ a personality similar to hers...
lol...u just proved my point. When you see there is gonna be no other girl out there like her, and the type of girl you been wantin has been right in front of your face for all these years it will just make sense. Im a believer in fate, and " friend " just dont ironically know each other since middle school, work together, go to the same college out of state, spend alotta time together as " just friends. " Yall feelings for each other will surely come out eventually. Im sure about that.
no i dont think so. i think for that to happen there would have been some sort of an attraction between me n her. *checks* NOPE.
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replied on 07-18-2005 12:42PM [Reply]
I think it's possible if both of you aren't attractive to each other
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replied on 07-18-2005 01:15PM [Reply]
Sed_Ated wrote:
I think it's possible if both of you aren't attractive to each other
Cosigns. As fars as KiLLaTraV goes with his "friend," If they have known each other for this long and they have yet to express themselves, then it might not happen, cuz for ya'll middle school was a good minute ago!!!
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replied on 07-18-2005 02:08PM [Reply]
i think so becuz one of my best friends is a male...even tho our friendship did start with him liking me but me rejecting him and we just ended up getting kool...now we swear we're brother and sister...
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