You're a mess Tres...but I don't know if I belive that you are a man when you get married and all that. As long as you are taking care of you and doing what you have to do to be sucessful in life...then in my book you are a man!
I agree...a MAN should have all of those things u mentioned...well, it may be a lil hard tryin' 2 find a MAN w/ good credit!!!
He can have bad credit as long as he can excuse it and is doing better. Good credit simply means that when you say youll do, youll do. Kind of a way to prejudge the way someone might handle certain situations.