I just want to know why you guys always talking about you don't want a gold digger, but you always talking about what you drive and how you can buy this and that.
Have you ever thought that your actions attract that kind of girl?
Example: I was at the mall and this boy was trying to holla. He was like can I have your number. I told him no. He press the button on this alarm, and turned back around and asked me if I was sure. He just wanted me to see what kind of car he was driving and that he had rims.
Why do you all do that?
P.S. I know all males don't do this.
Well my "problem" is my boyfriend does too much for me. He is always going out of his way for me, and sometimes I feel bad, because I am not in the financial state right now to do the same.
I like for things to be equal, but that's not the case right now.
^^^...You don't go nothig to worry about. I think that's just one of his ways of showing you that he loves you. You have no problem going outta ya way for anybody you care about. Nothing really is to much for them. ya feel me? Just receive it.
I think we all do that but in different ways..if you worked hard to obtain something worth showing odd..I think you would show it off but in a humbly way.
well me and my man have been together for 3 years now. at the beginning of out relationship he used to want to buy me everything that he thought would look cute on me. i told him no i didn't want all of that. then i started getting used to it. now its like he doesnt want to buy me anything. so ima leave it at this im not a gold digger but i find it funny how one minute a man wants to spoil you and buy you things you never dreamed of havin but then the next minute its something totally different.
Ok, I work a normal job. It's a fun job, but it doesn't pay like I'd like.
I drive a 1989 Oldsmobile. Even though I take good care of it, it's light-years away from being "flossin'" material.
I still attract the gold-diggin', materialistic women. Their ways aren't as blatant as others, but eventually the hurtful truth comes out, and I finally find out that they'd rather have the football player with the 2004 SUV with the 24in. rims.
So am I supposed to feel like all girls are like this?
not necessarily...i mean its the same thing as if i thought all guys were dogs just because i had a few encounters with some of them as suppose to men....once again it is just a matter of having some patience and a good judge of character!
