if you're out and about and you see a gentleman you like
would you go up to him and start talkin to him?
or are you the type to let the men come up to you?
Hmm...good question. In most cases the guy im attracted to is attracted to me too...for instance in a club, so i may give him the eye that says its ok to come talk..we dance...exchange numbers. If im just out at the mall or something...i'll definitely go talk to a guy...or be really ignorant and walk by and say something like "you're a cutie."...that'll usually get his attention...
I honestly have to say that I wouldn't approach a guy whether I liked him or not. I've been raised to believe that a man is supposed to approach you. And as much as I hate to admit it, I am afraid of rejection. So I'd have to say no.
It depends on the location...in most places for some **** reason the club parkin lot is bananas...So usually if I am tipsy in some kinda form...it doesnt really matter. It doesnt bother me because I'm confident on even my worse days...the worst that could happen is that he says no and even if he does...there are millions more in the world...
THIS CONVO IS A STEM TO ANOTHER BIGGER ISSUE. IF LADIES FEEL
IT'S A MAN JOB THEN WHY THEY GET MAD WHEN SOMEONE COMES OFF
AS A **** THEN BRAND ALL MEN AS THE SAME? HOW YOU KNOW YOU
LIKE THEM? ATTRACTED TO/INFATUATED WITH THEM IS MORE
ACCURATE AND BASE PURELY ON WHAT IS SEEN AND NOT BY WHAT
YOU FEEL OR KNOW. B/C OF THIS, I TAKE NO ACTION UNLESS SOME IS
TAKEN TOWARDS ME.
THIS CONVO IS A STEM TO ANOTHER BIGGER ISSUE. IF LADIES FEEL
IT'S A MAN JOB THEN WHY THEY GET MAD WHEN SOMEONE COMES OFF
AS A **** THEN BRAND ALL MEN AS THE SAME? HOW YOU KNOW YOU
LIKE THEM? ATTRACTED TO/INFATUATED WITH THEM IS MORE
ACCURATE AND BASE PURELY ON WHAT IS SEEN AND NOT BY WHAT
YOU FEEL OR KNOW. B/C OF THIS, I TAKE NO ACTION UNLESS SOME IS
TAKEN TOWARDS ME.
wait...i need a quick understanding...this was directed towards women who don't approach men...so u are sayin that because they don't and the men that approach them end up being jerks they brand all men as jerks?
Clarification: Not all men are jokes...I've learned and noticed that **** men have no probleming in steppin to you like they are the finest men in the world...and then when they get no play...they proceed to call women ****...so we don't call all men jerks...just the **** guys that act in this manner
I have also noticed that the cute ones, ya know the ones you may be interested in...don't approach females like they used to...its usually the cute ones they think they are some kinda ****/playa or once again the **** ones...so with that said...I follow this ol sayin...Go for what you know!
If you know that he/she is something you want...go for it...the worst that could happen is that he says no...then...so what...there are plenty more...because what one man/woman don't want...another one damn for sure does...Besides...if you never go thru upsets and let downs...u haven't fully experienced everything life has to offer!
Just my entire 10 cents on the situation!
it depends...If the guy is the extroverted type, I'll let him do the approaching....if he's the shy type, i'll check on it myself.... Think about it, you have nothing to lose as far as having your pride shot w/ the shy guy
Well i'm saying usually the dudes just come up to me or they get their friend to be like "yo my manz trying to get a chu" why!!!!! thats co coward to me why do some guys do that? omg! Im b old and Im known for being concieted oh well if u got it u got it and If i feel a guy look good and he fyne and fly Ill wave at him smile get his attention and start talking to him its not that serious I have a ton of male friends so being around guys or talking straight forward is neva a problem for me but usually the fellaz try to step with or without a man guys out hea dont be caring forreal
