ChangePlease wrote:

dymond pus. sy don't you go breaking up homes u wouldn't want it done to u and as far as this male he's not any good if he's talkin to u knowin he has a girlfriend what makes u think he wont do the same to u with some clown when and if u two are together? remove yourself from this situation and repent

Kool 2k6 wrote:

dymondpuzz wrote:

" Hit it Off' We meet at a college game with some friends, we talked and hung out that weekend and we found out we had alot in common and our views on some things in life were preety much the same. We been chatting on and offline since then....

Oh, Ok. DO NOT.....I repeat...DO NOT go ANY further until he's finished with this lady he's with now. Even when he is finished with her....go SLOW...and I mean, SLOOOOW. Especially if his current situation is kinda rough. Let him have his little healing time. Men need it too, whether we wanna admit it or not.

Kool 2k6 wrote:

dymondpuzz wrote:

" Hit it Off' We meet at a college game with some friends, we talked and hung out that weekend and we found out we had alot in common and our views on some things in life were preety much the same. We been chatting on and offline since then....

Oh, Ok. DO NOT.....I repeat...DO NOT go ANY further until he's finished with this lady he's with now. Even when he is finished with her....go SLOW...and I mean, SLOOOOW. Especially if his current situation is kinda rough. Let him have his little healing time. Men need it too, whether we wanna admit it or not.

tigeress05 wrote:

Dymond.... I know how ya feel!!! I've been in that same situation b4. My advice is the same as the others but let the friendship continue to become close cause as soon as he does makes the decision to end that relationship, nine times out of ten.....ur his next prospect. :grin: But yet...give him time to get himself together first cause if he brings some bitterness into the future relationship....yall both end up bitter.

dymondpuzz wrote:

Ladies, I have a question! What do you do when you like this guy, I mean this guy is intelligent, respectful, makes me laugh, he has plans for his future, knows what he wants in and out of life, in a woman. He is spiritual as myself and he always help me stay focused. I am in a state in my life that changes has occur and well he has been that friend that we always need. This guy is very attractive inside and out. We hit it off...................BUT he is involved We haven't cross the lines but in our minds we have.

AfroPoeticSista wrote:

dymondpuzz wrote:

Ladies, I have a question! What do you do when you like this guy, I mean this guy is intelligent, respectful, makes me laugh, he has plans for his future, knows what he wants in and out of life, in a woman. He is spiritual as myself and he always help me stay focused. I am in a state in my life that changes has occur and well he has been that friend that we always need. This guy is very attractive inside and out. We hit it off...................BUT he is involved We haven't cross the lines but in our minds we have.

stay away. stay FARRRRRR FARRRRRRR AWAY!!!! Do NOT cross that line if he is still in a relationship

NeoSoulBrotha wrote:

If he's with someone, then the choice isn't yours to make. He has to be totally convinced that what he sees in you is greater than what he experienced with her. That takes time. If things are the way you say they are, then it will eventually work its way out, probably in your favor. I wish you the best. Holla!