females please answer this
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Started by mobrida
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Oct 2005
mobrida
st.petersburg, FL
females please answer this one 4 me,why is it that we see yall on some online dating services and when we see yall walking around,us fellas try to say whats up,yall straight bust out that "u aint tryin hav no relationship" and "u dont want friends" but yet u be on the internet lookin at other **** in other states looking for love?please explain this to me.i guess its flason season huh!!!
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I kinda feel you on this.
There are two topics in play here. The approach and online dating.
The approach:
I get mad play from online, but in person I have a harder time. The thing is: my online persona is the same as my everyday persona. My approach is just the Hi, how are you, normal conversation piece, which often gets me nowhere. All I do is be myself, which is the goal oriented, cordial, funny, hardworkin average guy. Some may say, that is because of "who" you are approaching. I have to disagree because I have approached a myriad of women from numerous backgrounds (church, school, my military sistahs, on the street, in libraries, etc.) No, I am not an **** guy, inside or out. Now when I used to approach like "can I *bleep*" I also got hella play!?! I honestly don't know how to approach a woman anymore. If what comes out of my mouth works, good. If not, oh well--plenty of fish in the sea.
Online Dating:
I hear some saying you get to know the person first before you see them. Problem with that theory is: the majority of people online are not being themselves just like in everyday life. (you meet their "representative" until after the relationship is well on the way) Maybe the inhibitions are not present online. That's why some female will be like nah in person but steadily lookin online. Ionno Someone school me on this one.
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QUAlity wrote:Online dating shouldn't be your first priority when it comes to spittin at females. It should be a backup. There's too many deceptive **** females on these websites. The best way to meet women is to be out there in the field, face to face with these women. This way you can see how they look in person, peep their hygiene, style of dress, etc. You can't do this on myspace or BP because everyone's the Sh*t on there. People are flawless on there. Also, you can't read a female's nonverbal language on dating sites. 90% of communication is nonverbal. You can only peep out a female's nonverbal language in person. Her body language will tell you if she's feelin you or not.Damon wrote:I kinda feel you on this. There are two topics in play here. The approach and online dating. The approach: I get mad play from online, but in person I have a harder time. The thing is: my online persona is the same as my everyday persona. My approach is just the Hi, how are you, normal conversation piece, which often gets me nowhere. All I do is be myself, which is the goal oriented, cordial, funny, hardworkin average guy. Some may say, that is because of "who" you are approaching. I have to disagree because I have approached a myriad of women from numerous backgrounds (church, school, my military sistahs, on the street, in libraries, etc.) No, I am not an **** guy, inside or out. Now when I used to approach like "can I *bleep*" I also got hella play!?! I honestly don't know how to approach a woman anymore. If what comes out of my mouth works, good. If not, oh well--plenty of fish in the sea. Online Dating: I hear some saying you get to know the person first before you see them. Problem with that theory is: the majority of people online are not being themselves just like in everyday life. (you meet their "representative" until after the relationship is well on the way) Maybe the inhibitions are not present online. That's why some female will be like nah in person but steadily lookin online. Ionno Someone school me on this one.
