aight so i'm braiding this dude hair, right, and we hear a lot of noise coming from the room next door. then this dude says,
"yea, last night was crazy, it was about 10 police officers and 8 girls over here trying to find this dude on some **** charges! Ol' boy next door brought two girls in the room, two hella **** girls, and then he left the room, then some otha **** on the floor went in his room and just took advantage of her ****! of course when her girls found out they all came over here, then police gon knock on my door! i wasn't in that hs!t..."
so now this is the talk of the campus. every boy i ask about says "that's what they get, they were stupid to get **** and come to the boys side of the dorm" but all the females say its messed up the girls got ****.
what do yall think?
okay...so according to ole dude's story the guy brought "two hella **** girls" to the room, soooo...what happened to the other one? Was she **** as well? I'm just wondering becuz the story seems a lil sketchy to me. How does one get **** by a whole floor of dudes while the other one is chillin in the corner?
Second, if a girl says "no"...it is ****. Point blank. Now in this case, ole girl could have been so **** that she was in & out of it and was just murmuring ish. But like i said, the story sounds sketchy, so i'm not even really sure what to make of all it.
However, i'm just gonna speak on general note right here. I'm just a lil surprised how easily folkz can down play **** or negative circumstances in a person's life, like it's a paper cut or sumthin. Does the Black dude who walks through an all white neighborhood "have it coming" when he gets beat up? Or maybe the teenage boy from my church "had it coming" when he got shot in the head with stray bullets, just becuz he was hanging out with some friends in front of his house. Oh no...i got one! Perhaps if I get robbed and **** one day while walking to my dorm i "have it coming" becuz i chose to go to a school that's located in the hood. :???:
^^^...Maybe if the lil boy was playing outside in a **** neighborhood, then he shouldn't be playing outside. Maybe if you were walking to your dorm by yuorslef at 3 in the morning, then that wasn't smart. If a dudes walking through a white neighborhood where cops are known to act shady then yes. I'm not down playing ****, so much as I'm suggesting using wisdom. Was it wise to get **** around dudes you're not familiar with with a girl, who apparently doens't have your back? NO.
wtf?
so because you're in a bad situation
**** is understandable?
doesn't matter if she was pissy **** walking down an alley **** ****
if any male rapes her
he's at fault period
what happened to self control?
**** is crazy stupid
I concur. There is NO justification for ****. I don't believe that all the blame should be placed on the boys though. It was extremely irresponsible to put yourself in that situation. Better judgement must be used next time you drink.
i agree wit u somewhat but i dont believe that girls should be blamed at all....if boys can get **** and not have to worry about **** then why should females....its completely the dudes fault especially when both parties were drinking (which is usually the case)
when the both of you mature
you will see the difference
sidenote: another great response from cj
to serpent king, maybe it has to happen to your mother, aunt, or sister, or niece for you to see
that it's impossible for a girl to "set up" being in a **** situation
impossible for **** to ever be "understandable"
young and feeble minds
^^^...Basically. Not all dudes are predators. But with the thought in mind that there are grimey **** dudes out there who will take advantage of the situation, girls need to base their decisions. The idea is to make yourself a harder target for those people by making better decisions. Like S Check said, who knows how it woulda played out had the girls not been drinkin?
i think that lines get blurred in situations like this but in my opinion blaming it all on the female comes back to chauvinistic opinions about how women should carry themselves. "it aint all my fault cause she made it hard for me to control myself" or other things along those lines. i think in everything you have to go back to the root and fix it there. why is that some dudes see no problem in interpreting a woman's no as a yes while others could never dream of forcing themselves on someone? i hate that we have to live our lives constantly saying "well i can't trust him/her and i can't go there and i can't do this". i don't know. i'm babbling.
hmmm
if the aggie ceo daughter's got ****
i wonder if he would blame her
and say she shouldn't have of been drinkin
or in dude's room
If she was DRINKING and she KNOWS she has NO business drinking WHAT soever.............
then you GET what you get for DISOBEDIENCE...........
but I dont expect an atheist such as yourself to understand that.........
