What are we supposed to do, in your opinion? I am just curious because I've heard a large variety of responses from different females.
In general, most girls seem to just dance when you "jump" behind, and most of them usually look back to see who they are dancin with and they will continue depending on how you look (I would assume) or if they know you. However, I have heard some females complain about that technique, and they get mad when dudes do that. Some of em will say that they'd prefer the dude to ask her first.
It's nothin serious at all...just somethin I have been wonderin about.
It depends on my mood.
If I'm jazzy or I'm posted up not really dancing then ask me to dance.
If I'm jazzy on the dance floor or just all normal and Sh*t dancing, lol......i'll let you take my hand
If I'm on the dance floor tearing dat Sh*t up you better just jump behind cuz I probably wont hear you ask me to dance and I'll be too crunk to give a fukk. Of course I'ma still look back and see what you look like, thats with anything.
well, i jus walk up on em and grab they hand......but one thing you never do is stand behind or close to a girl for hella years because she know you wanna dance and you jus look lame.....so if i dont dance when i make eye contact, i jus keep it pushin....and dont always go for the finest ones....i mean dont not go for em, but i look for the ones that can dance...and jus cus the fine dont mean they can dance...trust me. 8)
EACH GIRL IS DIFFERENT SOME LIKE IT WHEN GUYS JUMP BEHIND OTHERS LIKE TO BE ASKED BUT I KNOW I CAN SPEAK FOR MOST GIRLS WHEN I SAY WE WANT YOU TO DANCE! THATS WHAT THE DANCE FLOOR IS FOR
IM Like NAsty NAs on illmatic track 9 i represent represent Va all day!
I dont mind if dude just jump behind me, especially if im in the mood to shake my @$$. But if he aint lookin right, my girls give me the signal and pull me away as if they are urgently tryin to talk to me..lol. Other times i would like for a dude to grab only my hand cuz i hate when a dude grabs my @ss and expects me to dance with him. No No, its not that kind of party...
grab my hand or speak first. me and my girls always dance with guys while we are facing each other , so if a guy jumps behind andain't lookin too right she'll make a face. i'd appreciate the effort to catch my attention with eye contact before you grab my hips or something.
and i HATE when guys who don't know how to dance just do that grinding stuff. learn how to dance!
*yo, this thread is dumb old*
if you wanna dance with me, ask. PLEASE. For your own safety, just ask. I'm a city slicker, and that random type ish where come up behind somebody and start dancing around is a one-way ticket to a beatdown.
