i have no issue with preparing food n keepin the house together for my family. it's when the husband DEMANDS it that i'ma strike up an attitude. don't TELL me that you want dinner, common sense is gonna tell me that you're hungry, and i'll see to it when i see fit.
it's like when your mother sees you walking to the kitchen, and tells you to take take out the trash, when you were already on your way to do it. wouldn't YOU get annoyed, too?