Okay, check me out...
I just started getting into the dating scene and... I've been play'n the field ..some would say. But, my issue is, now I have a man and he is fine as what. Its coo cause female try him and he isn't with it. He is intelligent, an excellent Athlete and he respects me... he "says" he loves, but I don't fall that easy. Its not like he's getting any and no promises or incentives have been made. I'v covered every angle thats he could come from and he seems alright. The reason that I'm not trippin over him is cause.. I'm in love with a guy thats been in my life for over a year, he just has a girl and lives in ATL. I see him during the summer and holidays, and we hang out when I'm there. This guy in Atlanta wanted to go with me b4 he had his gi;r but I said whats the poin cause he lives 500 miles plus form me and it would be to much... so we are friends. Its not like we're playin dirty cause I've talked to his"girl" on several occasions and he had told her that he cares about me and that we will reamain in one anothers life.. and she didn't argue.
So help me out, dude from ATL has mad game and I have acquired some along the way. He talks to a ton of girls, but when I need him I get him. I like the non commitment with him and I like what he has to say. At times I think that my bf is too loving and not aggressive enough. He's hard wit his boys but he allows me to get away wit too much and maybe not hard enough as the guy in ATL is. I like the game and I like the challenge...so whats up. I'm a "good girl" and guys love me as a challenge, and I like the "****, playa" type?
What do ya'll think
Girl I was about to tell you how you done lost your mind and how crazy you were, but since you had sense enough to make the right choice Imma let you make it!!!
Girl wuts really good with you...im not gonna front b/c i was in somewhat the same situation as you are now, the difference is i have realized i have someone special in my life that wants and will be there no matter what. The other guy...where is he now :?: :?: :?: He's still around n he is my friend, but thas it. Us girls keep complaining when is it my turn to get a good man, but when we get him we screw it up. Don't play ya man...u will def regret it. Either you be with him faithfully or jus cut it.
Ayo on the reals u need to leave dude you with. Cuz basically you just wastin his time. He treatin you great and u dont appreciate that shyt. Dude in love wit u and you want a dude who playin all these chicks and dont even live where u at? Come on ma think. Just stop wastin ol dude time and money cuz he dont need all that
(I would have NEVER thought I would ever say this...) I totally agree. I don't get why u would want someone else u KNOW isn't better and u have a good man at home. My thought would be to let ya man go so he can find someone to care for him as he cares for u.
Girl, what the hell is the problem :?: :?: You have a man that is devoted to and loves you, but you want someone that is already attached because he's a "****" :?: :!: :x What the hell :?: :!: :?: :!: I can tell you from personal experience that the "****" may be what you think you want, but in the end, you'll realize that the man who loves you and is loyal to you is the better person to have in your life. Why the hell would you be the stereotypical "good girl" looking for a "****"? Keep it up and you'll end up with a man that abuses you, disrespects you or cheats on you. Stay with the one you're with. You'll be thankful later.
