this is for yall guys

with me, if i approach a guy, whether is to talk to him or for us to hang out, i already set in my head and heart that it will not be anything more point blank...that is if i approach them first. and what made you come to a conclusion that i am daring someone to come and talk to me? that is not the case because anyone can dare come and talk to me, but i wont give them the time or chance if i don't think they have what i am looking for in a good man. a real man would be the one to approach such a girl, why? because he knows that he is not the one to prove her right, but to make her happy and even change her whole mindset about this dilemma. yet again you are right to a certain extent, because i hear a lot of that from my homeboys, bout how i just have that aura that screams, don't even waste your time...lol