Fellas, one quik way to find out how a girl feels about you is to judge her hugs.
If you hug her and she gives you a tight squeeze that lingers, and then she rubs yer back, then you know you in there!
But if when she hugs you, she gives you the "Three pats" then yer done, you are deemed a friend and nothing more.
But Titus, what's the Three pats?
Pay attention to when she leans in to hug you. If she gives you three pats on the back or shoulder, that's female morse code for:
Pat(You)
Pat(Gets)
Pat(None)
You are forever locked out of the Pearly Gates and you might as well add her to your Only Friends and Family phone plan.
It's really official if she bends at the waist so that Mr. Happy can't get close enough to get Too Happy.
shyt.. a couple of pats can mean that you are still ok, but if she attck your back like its a snare drum or something.. then you definitely have no hope.. also, if there is a pause in between the pats, its not lookin too good for you.. you are prolly cuttin off her circulatory/respiratory systems...
LOOK at it this way.. If you get a hug.. it's usually a decent relationship.. if you are always TAKINg the hugs.. start to rethink what's in your playa's handbook.. return that shyt..
I myself are notorious for the really nice hugs.. you know.. chest all in and what not not.. I like giving hugs.. so u might want another means of finding out if she digs you...
i would like for some of the fellas to start decifering (sp) some of their signs. because yall are funny characters and sometimes confuse the hell outta me so i would like some clarification
"i want you girl" - you are ****, get away
"i dont like you girl" - take me now...
"girl" - i like spaghetti on wednesdays
"i love you" - i like to eat bacon
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f*** a sign you a grown **** man/woman be real
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tru tru.. but then again.. some of y'all JUST DON"T GET IT.. I mean.. how many signs do we have to throw at you.. not tryna hurt niccas feelin's but if it comes to the point where i gotta do that, then you already a SLOW **** NUCCA...
i agree with Tres and this post...
Personal space and one's ability to intrude or gain acess is one easy decernable factor of relationship.
I have a friend who when we were just getting to know each other, she gave me church hugs...them three pats with the **** way out. i knew it was a wrap from then. But, this thread lacks a bit of truth about a situation that can change up. This friend as we grew closer started huggin me closer and what not to the point they were like 3-5 seconds or so....(in retrospect, those were some long **** hugs).
But it is undeniable the body signals do show different levels of comfort among people Pro.
But i also agree with provAKAtive. i have missed out on several girls i coulda been with if i just knew how to read signs, Im more of a "Dammit, say what you mean so i dont have to guess!" type of person. So im always straight up when i like a female.
