Try to work it out.. well.. actually, ask him point blank if he has someone in mind... I would take the break.. I mean.. If you let it go and it comes back to you, ITS YOURS..... If y'all don't get back together, then he wasn't the one for you.... check the siggy
To be honest, the long distance thing is hard. Morgan is 7 hours from North Carolina and believe me I tried to do the long distance thing. It can happen as long as both parties r clear on what they want and they stay focused. Personally it sounds like he wants a break...i mean there are plenty of dudes in college, just do u and be happy.
He might want to just take a break because he doesn't want to cheat on you or vice versa. I mean there may not be anyone he's with at the present...but just in case he slips somewhere down the line there wouldn't be a relationship in jeopardy because of that. <---that could also how he feels if you slip up. I have a long distance relationship...8 hours from home; 10.5 hours at school. The relationship takes a lot of maturity, a lot of communication, and alot of perserverance. The only reason why I chose to get involved with it is because I feel that down the line something beneficial would come from it. If I had the SLIGHTEST doubt I would have backed out a long time ago. I know that if it doesn't work out...our FRIENDSHIP won't be jeopardized. Boundaries have to be set. And sometimes you have to be a little lenient with it...I mean we're talking about 3-4 years where you're away from each other the majority of the time. You just have to be true to yourself. And know your personal limitations. If you're one that needs to cuddle every other day...then a long distance relationship is not for you. You're setting yourself up for failure off the back.
i'm feelin wat mah homegirl is sayin cuz i've ben doin this for the majority of mah relationship....and i kno it takes time, dedication and maturity to deal wit long distance relationships....but jus do wats in ur heart...wat u believe is the best for the 2 of u....and once again i wish u the best of luck...keep ya head up and smile :arrow:
trying to think of any long distance relationships that i know of that have survived, i'm sure that there are some, but i'm trying to think of any that i know of. *thinking*. will return.
What constitutes the relationship surviving. Marriage isn't the "be all and end all" of every relationship. If I can end a relationship on speaking terms I feel like I've accomplished something. I think good long distance relationships are just as successful as a relationship where the person is there in ya face everyday. Do you mean those relationships that fall off freshman year of college? Been there done that didn't want to buy the t-shirt. :lol:
I don't think that the real issue will be distance. The real issue will probably be you being able to handle being on your own away from home and being faithful.
We don't mean any harm to your relationship at all. You decide what is best for you, but when you get to school, the temptation to cheat is tremendous; not because you're a bad person, but because you're a growing and changing person.
I wish you the best.
I guess i am a non-believer in long distance relationships because i've been in one while in college and it didn't last, and I had a lot of girlfriends in college who got their hearts broken trying to be in long-distance relationships.
Most relationships long distance or not end in heart break....So I have to agree with what Wiley said....Distance isn't always the issue. I figure if a girl or guy is gonna cheat with you then they'll do it even if you were with them 24/7.
If its ment to happen then it will happen...Isnt that called Manifest destiny?? or is that when everything is already planned out you just doing it......I dunno i been outta school too long...
Manifest Destiny was when a group of people think it is their responsibility to take control over another....but I know what you mean :wink:
i say take a real break to keep in your mind that you are going to try and get back together becuase if you do then you'll pass up on something that might have been a good thing for you had you persued it. Go off to college make new friends become independant and like everyone else said if it was meant to be then ya'll be together eventually.
:arrow: I think that he kinda wants you to test the waters because if he is all that you have known how would know if you wanted something else.? :roll:
If its ment to happen then it will happen...Isnt that called Manifest destiny?? or is that when everything is already planned out you just doing it......I dunno i been outta school too long...
Manifest Destiny was when a group of people think it is their responsibility to take control over another....but I know what you mean :wink:
Seriously???....*acts like I'm at a spelling bee* Can you use it in a sentence please??
