I'm tired of being hurt :(

BabyGyrl wrote:

Well, I was basically talking to this guy all school year. Everything was cool the summer before I went back to Hampton. We even said we'd take it to the next level when I came home for a break, but then things got weird. We'd argue all the time, but whenever I came back home (BTW: he goes to Georgia tech in Atlanta, so it was a LD thing) things were better again. Now when I came home back in May for the summer, things were okay...at least I thought they were. After we saw each other, two weeks go by and to make a long story short, he met some girl or whatever that he was introduced to by one of his roommates during those weeks. Now, me and him were in this pseudo relationship for almost a year, but a month after things end between us, he makes the girl his girlfriend! It's been about two months since that all went down and I'm getting over it as each day goes by, but the hurt is still there. I was really good to that boy, even while I was ten hours away at Hampton. I feel like I wasted my time and that I am in love with someone who wants someone else. It hurts, but.....I dunno. I just feel stupid. I just want someone I can truly vibe with and who will want to be with me and only me. I'm tired of getting hurt. Anyone ever been in a situation like this or something similar? What are some of yall's advice?

ladylibra wrote:

BabyGyrl wrote:

Well, I was basically talking to this guy all school year. Everything was cool the summer before I went back to Hampton. We even said we'd take it to the next level when I came home for a break, but then things got weird. We'd argue all the time, but whenever I came back home (BTW: he goes to Georgia tech in Atlanta, so it was a LD thing) things were better again. Now when I came home back in May for the summer, things were okay...at least I thought they were. After we saw each other, two weeks go by and to make a long story short, he met some girl or whatever that he was introduced to by one of his roommates during those weeks. Now, me and him were in this pseudo relationship for almost a year, but a month after things end between us, he makes the girl his girlfriend! It's been about two months since that all went down and I'm getting over it as each day goes by, but the hurt is still there. I was really good to that boy, even while I was ten hours away at Hampton. I feel like I wasted my time and that I am in love with someone who wants someone else. It hurts, but.....I dunno. I just feel stupid. I just want someone I can truly vibe with and who will want to be with me and only me. I'm tired of getting hurt. Anyone ever been in a situation like this or something similar? What are some of yall's advice?

I never liked him anyway, Kia. I just didn't wanna make you mad. :evil: