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I have been friends with this guy since the 11th grade or whatever. He went to the Marines almost a year ago (he's stationed in San Diego), and we kinda lost contact until this past March. I thought everything was cool until two months ago, this female calls my cell from his cell, leaving a message saying: " Hi, Nikia. You don't know who I am, but I am his wife. Could you please call me at....", blah, blah, blah. I was like LOL...yeah okay. This is a joke, and I didn't worry about it until HE sent a text, saying she was his girlfriend and that she was going through his phone, and as she did so, she found a text he had sent me......
Let me back up. Even though we are just friends, we always had feelings for each other. Now...
Anyways, I was like whatever, don't have some girl call my cell!! You need to tell her that ain't nothing going on between me and you!. And the next day, this negro calls my cell, and leaves a message, saying, "You can't call me anymore. I am married with a kid". I was like
He said that many military guys marry girls because they get more money or something like that and that is why he did it. He also has a little girl by her who is like six months or so. He said that he is trying to get out of it and in every argument they have, she's like, "Nikia this, and Nikia that!", and blah blah blah.
Now, I swear this has got to be one of the most trifling things I have ever seen. Sometimes you think you know a person, but you really don't.
Pretty much, I guess. But he and I never tried to holla. We were just friends and he put me in an awkward situation, making this female think there was something going on when there really wasn't. He brought everything on himself in the end. She's leaving him. Oh, well...
Me and this so called man so called father of 2 from the age of 16 and still bustin in the hoe with out protection said 6 mths in the relationship saying he loves me Now i know ya say already she dumb for messin with him but all this extra stuff about him start rollin around to the end of the relationship. By the end of the relationship he started to cheat on me with her becuase she said she was going to date her dads best freind since he treats her right (the father friend is 32 and she in 19) so my ex which is her baby father dumbed me cause he felt he was gonna be "replaced" with a older man. back it up a month before this he wanted oral and he knew i had no exp. and im thinkin does he do it finding out by trying it out like a **** he done it be4 and so well . But it hurted me because I took all his lies and promising words and it made me look stupid his fam not just his mother made it seem as if i was the best even though we have no kids together but i learned never to pay attention to the other family cuz they know I would get up in his and i did later to the end which made an outcome of me being by myself and he is going to marry her I fought his cuzin why- she lied to me and the family has nothing to deal with your relationship. To get to the point some duded can lead you on to a road you can never find the end to and you feel as if you were to dumb to find the right chosen path with him
Me and this so called man so called father of 2 from the age of 16 and still bustin in the hoe with out protection said 6 mths in the relationship saying he loves me Now i know ya say already she dumb for messin with him but all this extra stuff about him start rollin around to the end of the relationship. By the end of the relationship he started to cheat on me with her becuase she said she was going to date her dads best freind since he treats her right (the father friend is 32 and she in 19) so my ex which is her baby father dumbed me cause he felt he was gonna be "replaced" with a older man. back it up a month before this he wanted oral and he knew i had no exp. and im thinkin does he do it finding out by trying it out like a **** he done it be4 and so well . But it hurted me because I took all his lies and promising words and it made me look stupid his fam not just his mother made it seem as if i was the best even though we have no kids together but i learned never to pay attention to the other family cuz they know I would get up in his and i did later to the end which made an outcome of me being by myself and he is going to marry her I fought his cuzin why- she lied to me and the family has nothing to deal with your relationship. To get to the point some duded can lead you on to a road you can never find the end to and you feel as if you were to dumb to find the right chosen path with him
I'm so happy that you summarized, becuase I was confused... sowwy..
Me and this so called man so called father of 2 from the age of 16 and still bustin in the hoe with out protection said 6 mths in the relationship saying he loves me Now i know ya say already she dumb for messin with him but all this extra stuff about him start rollin around to the end of the relationship. By the end of the relationship he started to cheat on me with her becuase she said she was going to date her dads best freind since he treats her right (the father friend is 32 and she in 19) so my ex which is her baby father dumbed me cause he felt he was gonna be "replaced" with a older man. back it up a month before this he wanted oral and he knew i had no exp. and im thinkin does he do it finding out by trying it out like a **** he done it be4 and so well . But it hurted me because I took all his lies and promising words and it made me look stupid his fam not just his mother made it seem as if i was the best even though we have no kids together but i learned never to pay attention to the other family cuz they know I would get up in his and i did later to the end which made an outcome of me being by myself and he is going to marry her I fought his cuzin why- she lied to me and the family has nothing to deal with your relationship. To get to the point some duded can lead you on to a road you can never find the end to and you feel as if you were to dumb to find the right chosen path with him
punctuation is your friend. but i think i got it. i hope you find something better the next time around.
He said that many military guys marry girls because they get more money or something like that and that is why he did it. He also has a little girl by her who is like six months or so. He said that he is trying to get out of it and in every argument they have, she's like, "Nikia this, and Nikia that!", and blah blah blah.
Now, I swear this has got to be one of the most trifling things I have ever seen. Sometimes you think you know a person, but you really don't.
. But it hurted me because I took all his lies and promising words and it made me look stupid his fam not just his mother made it seem as if i was the best even though we have no kids together but i learned never to pay attention to the other family cuz they know I would get up in his and i did later to the end which made an outcome of me being by myself and he is going to marry her I fought his cuzin why- she lied to me and the family has nothing to deal with your relationship. To get to the point some duded can lead you on to a road you can never find the end to and you feel as if you were to dumb to find the right chosen path with him
