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54 replies · 17785 views · Started by BabyGyrl · Jul 2004
BabyGyrl
Are any of you still friends with the guy you gave your virginity to? My friends have all told me that they hate the guy they lost it to now. As for me....it's hard to turn love into hate....it doesn't mean it cant be done, especially with all the things that are going on between me and him now, but still..... Anyways, is that person still in your life?
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In Rod We Trust · Aug 2004
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KenYaFeelMe? wrote:
jstblz99 wrote:
KenYaFeelMe? wrote:
Nope. Haven't done "IT" yet. The "plan" is hold out for my hubby/soulmate/one, so hopefully i won't be comin back to this thread anytime soon sayin "I don't know where that damn negro is and i haven't talked to him in years! I hate him :evil: !".Whoever takes my virtue isn't going ANYWHERE. He's stuck for LIFE like Eddie Murphy and Martin Lawrence. I ain't playin :!: :lol:
cosigns
I see from the many message boards that we are very likeminded. I see, great minds think alike :wink:
Thank you for realizing that I am also a gr8 mind (much like urself) and not just agreeing....ppl seem to have a problem with great minds nowadays.....they don't realize that when u agree with another gr8 mind, you don't have to state or restate the obvious :x
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· Aug 2004
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I try to be friends to my first but i can't do it. He did me so dirty in the end but i try to forgive and forget since we broke up 3 years ago. I regret givin it up to him because he wasn't worthy of this ****.. :evil: :evil: :evil:
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A'Kaye47 · Aug 2004
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Hmmmm...were cool an everything...but nothing to the effect of us ever gettin together or TALKING...HAIL hes a old **** man....He was a sweet guy, treated me right. But we couldnt do COUPLE things cuz he was too old for me from JUMP, an I nor he had no business doin the DO!
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ame12 · Aug 2004
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Well actually I still got mine and I plan on keeping it untill that special someone comes into my life... 4 life.
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Kismet_TNT · Aug 2004
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Good question. I don't talk to the one who I lost my virginity to because one he moved to Memphis TENN and two we just aren't cool like that. It's a long personal story behind it that I don't wish to get into. But I wouldn't say that I hate him. I feel indifferent about him.
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ThatClassyGirl216 · Aug 2004
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ame12 wrote:
Well actually I still got mine and I plan on keeping it untill that special someone comes into my life... 4 life.
Yeah thaz pretty much how I'm thinkin tool. I've come close once or twice but the guy who was just in my life wasn't good for me. I want to wait until I'm married...yup, thaz the plan
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· Aug 2004
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yea..we're not friends friends..but we still speak..but i dont regret cuz that was my first..and i learned from my experience..
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· Aug 2004
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AggieSweetie07 wrote:
Slim GoodyN757 wrote:
the person i lost my virginity to is no longer a part of my life and we are not on speaking terms. I regret losing it to him but then I also am glad that i have learned from my mistake which has made me a smarter person.
cosigns..i only did it cuz everybody use to talk about it, so i decided to act upon it, and see what the real deal was...
Me too!! the guy i lost it to wasn't even on my level and I just wanted to experience it with someone i was used to, and comfortable with that's the only reason why I chose him BIG MISTAKE :cry: :cry:
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BmoreBabigyrl · Aug 2004
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We're still cool.. I mean he's like my closest male friend not to mention my ex.. We talk everyday... close to 3 times a day... ion know how we do that tho.. most ppl I know aren't cool w/ their ex's
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quannicab · Aug 2004
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A'Kaye47 wrote:
Hmmmm...were cool an everything...but nothing to the effect of us ever gettin together or TALKING...HAIL hes a old **** man....He was a sweet guy, treated me right. But we couldnt do COUPLE things cuz he was too old for me from JUMP, an I nor he had no business doin the DO!
I UNDERSTAND EXACTLY WHERE YOU COMIN FROM BEEN THERE AND STILL WONDERS WHY I DID IT :? 8) BUT LIKE THEY SAY THINGS HAPPEN FOR A REASON.
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