usually Momma is always there but at times Daddy never was..I'm lucky cause I have a strong relationships with my pops and I'm just wondering who on HBCU has that same bond/relationship and who doesn't..
I am and always will be my Daddy's little princess....even through the arguements...punishments...and dissapointments...he never fails me....
...even though we're not THAT close anymore...i still love him to death and i would give my life for him....
but there are always times when i dislike him...but later on i look on it...and realize that he was just doing his duty as my father and making sure i knew right from wrong...
Wow...look at all these peeps with daddies. That's a beautiful thing. Appreciate it yall, cuz it truly is a blessing.
My father has never been in the picture. He would send his lil measely checks, mainly cuz the courts ordered him to, not cuz he actually cared. Once i turned 18, and it wasn't required, it was a wrap! Brotha wasn't even thinkin about contributing towards my college education cuz he got excuse after excuse. What he know about a financial struggle? He isn't a single black momma funding a child's college fund on her own, a hospitalized husband with Lou Gherig's disease, and taking care of every bill known to man, while making an OK paycheck with the postal service. I used to see him every once in awhile, but now i'll be lucky if it's once year. Dude doesn't even know my birthday :roll:.
Used to hold ALOT of animosity towards him. Right before i left for school he apologized for not being there for me, and i forgave him. Having all that contempt in my heart, does me more harm that it does him. Won't front tho, his absense still affects how i look at men in general, but God is workin on me with that one. I'm a work in progress
Yeah, appreciate yall daddy! My father wasn't much involved and I never had a male role model in the house. You would think a 57 year old would take more responsibilty.
But it's good to see Black men involved with their children.
I wouldn't know what to do if I didnt have my dad....He and I are a alike..We really don't talk much but when we do it's great to learn more about him....Especially, when he tells me how he had to hustle his way through college to make ends meat because his father was in and out of JAIL..
He told me that he didn't want to make the same mistake when he had a kid..
"When I have a kid, I want to be into the kid. I want to go into fatherhood the same way I go into work-I want to give it my all"
OK me and my daddy are maddd tight! He moved out and came to miami 3 yrs ago and I was upset that he left the state! but last yr i came down too so it was all good! Im sooo lucky to cause most of my AUNTS have kids and their daddies aint there :evil: Back to my daddy, I wuv him sooo much..im the last girl so yeah, im a daddy's girl
I am so shocked to see how many people have fathers....I guess thats something to say about blacks that go to college right? My father died from **** when I was 12. We were never real close cuz he was a crackhead.....maybe thats why I am so evil now....oh welll.....pass the liquor and the **** cuz I need to drown my problems away.....
^^ damn thats rough. well not you, above you, the crackthing
well, that surely de-emphasizes anything i gotta say about my dad, but imma say it anyway.
my parents divorced when i was 4. he moved back to Texas where he grew up with his family, while i live in CT. i go time and time to see him, i have NO hard feelings whatso ever. He doesnt KNOW me as a person, and i dont really know him. He will be there for me if i ask him, but i have learned not to ask anybody for anything. i realized i cant rely on nobody but myself, and most of the time i cant do that cause im high.
my dad smokes weed too, and hes in his 50s. im like, arent you too old for that? My mother tells me stories about how they argued all the time, but hes real cool and laid back. i dont like my mom, does that count. shes an asshole.
but there are always times when i dislike him...but later on i look on it...and realize that he was just doing his duty as my father and making sure i knew right from wrong...
Wow...look at all these peeps with daddies. That's a beautiful thing. Appreciate it yall, cuz it truly is a blessing.
My father has never been in the picture. He would send his lil measely checks, mainly cuz the courts ordered him to, not cuz he actually cared. Once i turned 18, and it wasn't required, it was a wrap! Brotha wasn't even thinkin about contributing towards my college education cuz he got excuse after excuse. What he know about a financial struggle? He isn't a single black momma funding a child's college fund on her own, a hospitalized husband with Lou Gherig's disease, and taking care of every bill known to man, while making an OK paycheck with the postal service. I used to see him every once in awhile, but now i'll be lucky if it's once year. Dude doesn't even know my birthday :roll:.
Used to hold ALOT of animosity towards him. Right before i left for school he apologized for not being there for me, and i forgave him. Having all that contempt in my heart, does me more harm that it does him. Won't front tho, his absense still affects how i look at men in general, but God is workin on me with that one. I'm a work in progress
