ABORTIONS:ChildreN ARENT MISTaKES...excuse me for saying that, just sometimes they are unplanned. A number of my friends have had one and they are happy at the end that they had it taken care of so that they were able to complete school/highschool/college/work ext. But do uthink it should happen or should u just man up to your responsibilities or go thru wit the **** so your life wont be completely ruined and just regret it later. PLEASE SPEAK FREELY. NO MATTER IF YOUR FOR IT OR AGAINST IT DONT BE SCARED
hmmm i dont understand why people say it's wrong to have an **** unless the woman was **** and ended up getting pregnant...**** is **** is ****...
i STILL feel as though you can't fully understand until you're in that situation...I know girls that had 5 abortions before they were 17 and didnt give a ****...I knew another girl who had her 4th **** by 15 and i think she went crazy after awhile (literally) cuz she just kept buying baby clothes etc etc and she wasn't pregnant...she seriously lost it....anywho..that's all im gonna say on this..i think :?
been doin big thangs!!!! SIKE!...i've been chillin ya know :wink: school is getting on my nerves :roll: but it's all good..at least the social part is...i know i havent been on this thang in a min min but i missed ya too man!!!
you really shouldn't say it is a bad thing until you have been put in that problem. so people think that it is bad but i think of it as achoice because some people do have reasons of why they have done it.
ok........................
heres my thoughts on it AFTER the fact..........................
****....................
WRONG......................
u should handle ur responsibilities.................
the baby didn't come knocking on ur ****...............
u sent for her when you opened ur legs.......................
u made a "mistake"............
DEAL WITH IT.....................
cuz I know for damn sure you're not gonna be able to live with killing your child...................
emotonally, physically, psychologically, spiritually, EVERYTHING CHANGES...................
you experience some severe stress during that time in between when u do it and when you die..........
and at times, the pain is SO unbearable that u wonder if u can go on............
i've always had seriously mixed emotions about this topic. my main stance is that i don't feel it's right but as someone mentioned earlier i also don't think it's the government's responsibility to get involved with a woman's body. even if i think i couldn't do it, i'm not gone get on somebody who feels like they can make that choice. a friend of mine summed it up pretty well in my opinion. they said that, "**** is wrong because you never know what you have growing within you. you could have the person who finds a cure for **** or the first black president"
...ok after some time now...having a bit experience about it now....(no im not pregnant...but my sister is...and some of my family members were pushing the matter and what not...) I still stand on what i've said...i dont believe in it...if you can lay down and do that...you can stand up and deal with it to...you knew the risks...and if you didnt prepare yourself...then...its on you....now of course if somebody was **** and what not...then i dont think its fair for the person to have to take on the responsibility because it wasn't their fault...then again...He never puts more on you than you can bear....
as far as my sister...yeah she got pregnant...and she doesn't believe in abortions either...so she wants to have this child...she is still in school (Hampton University) and she's trying to make it...and even though she'll be expecting soon...she's gonna at least try....now even though she knew she wasn't ready for a child...she's taking responsibility because she was the one to get off **** pills...::shrugs:: my momma always taught us to protect ourselves...and never depend on the man...depend on you....thats how i was raised...thats what i believe....
5.....that's how old my child would have been. I have read all of the comments posted and I respect everyone's opinion but that is all they have been opinions (with the exception of those who have experienced it) I made my decision because it was the best for me. People speak about taking care of your responsibilties and what not but what about the ones that get pregnant while on some form of ****. What do you say then? Let me pose this question for those who speak of adoption, How do you carry a child allow it grow and move and take on your characteristics and then give it away, isn't that more harmful(emotionally) for a child?
