I'm trying to figure this ****out, becuase me and my ex-boyfreind are going through some SHYT. Letme pop game to ya.
Now lets say you have found that one girl that takes care of you, anything you needed she got you, she's always there when you need her, you love her, family loves her too...you know...
Okay, so you're not ready for a relationship with her because, you don't know if you can competly turn away any temptation that comes you way. You wanna be free to see other people. Understandable. But because of the relationship you two have, you know she is always going to be there...so that when you are ready...you can pick up where you left off... :roll: ha...assumptions...
Anyways... how do you make a person not take you for granted. How do you do this in a way that they know you will always be there for them...but not always be HERE for them..? Do I make any sense? Yeah...he's probably right with the I'll always be here...but I don't want him to KNOW that. I want to become challange again...
Am I making good sense?
Imma tell you like this.... Just ignore the nigg. You gonna find out how much he really care. Cuz if he just usin u "like an old pack of Ramen noodles" sure he gonna try n talk but after a while he gonna say fukk it and by another one cuz on A&T campus they come 5 for a dolla. But if he treatin you like piece of jewelry that u need to come out lookin fresh but only wear on special occasions he gonna keep tryin to get back at u. Why cuz you put in too much effort to get it to let it go so quick. Even though u dont wear it no more you still need it and cant find nothin else like it.
Imma tell you like this.... Just ignore the nigg. You gonna find out how much he really care. Cuz if he just usin u "like an old pack of Ramen noodles" sure he gonna try n talk but after a while he gonna say fukk it and by another one cuz on A&T campus they come 5 for a dolla. But if he treatin you like piece of jewelry that u need to come out lookin fresh but only wear on special occasions he gonna keep tryin to get back at u. Why cuz you put in too much effort to get it to let it go so quick. Even though u dont wear it no more you still need it and cant find nothin else like it.
girl i understand you, him too. been there done that. that old sayin comes into place here "dont know what you got till its gonme or betta yet just aint yours anymore" i understand you love him and wanna be wit him but if he aint ready and "wanna be free" then hes either missing what he wants thats in front of him(you) or really does just wanna be friends. i say either step back and move on or strictly be his friend...thats the only way he will both make up his mind forreal about what he wants and you and be happy. best of luck
I told you personally that I am...its just hard....doodyhead # 2.
