^Sweety, you can't make nobody love someone they ain't attracted to. If a lot of you guys grow so confidence and stop trying to analyze every damn thing you might find a girl.
^And if she don't wanna be saved, rescue the next. Why save somebody that don't wanna be saved. Why be with someone that don't wanna be with you?
I think you got self-esteem issues myself. But I could be wrong.
You can't apply rational thought to irrational people, so stop trying.
So you saying that females are irrational and lack rational thought? :?: :?:
Is that what you are saying Neo? :?: :?:
Is it? :?: :?:
No, simply that some people in general are always going to do things you don't understand. So instead of everyone getting frustrated and saying "I can't understand why guys / girls do such-and-such", realize that it's not supposed to make sense and rarely does.
^And if she don't wanna be saved, rescue the next. Why save somebody that don't wanna be saved. Why be with someone that don't wanna be with you?
I think you got self-esteem issues myself. But I could be wrong.
Ha! Try again Dr. Phil
Ain't nobody trying to be Dr. Phil. I just call it like I see it. Anybody that always got question why they can't get anyone and blaming it on someone else, got some issues to me. Take a look at yourself cause you the only person you can change.
Look man, before I post I'd like to say that I completely understand where you from and why I may not agree with what you have to say you definitely articulated your argument very well...but...
I think you are looking at it from a completely wrong perspective, as if all men are the same. What I mean by that is, if a woman is saying there are no good men left, then it should be obvious that she means good in her opinion. For example, while "Darnell" may be a nice young man, etc, not a bad boy, etc, you can't expect a girl who completely loves and adores those "fly-****" Kappa's or those "nasty Q's" to feel him in that kind of way no matter how nic he is and no matter how much she helps him out. You have to understand that when a woman says there are no good men left you need to be able to read between the line and figure out what she really means, which is that she's been unable to find a man that she clicks with thus far. Women are going to feel the type of **** they feel regardless of how nice, bad, etc, the other one may be. It's just all a matter of personal taste..Well hey, that's just my two cents.
That is all...
After decyphering that stupid **** comparison you made..I will sum up what you are saying as well as expand upon what the person who posted below my original post said(btw what's your name, sorry I'm new don't kno you guys 2 well)...why would you waste your time trying to save somebody who doesn't want to be saved when you could be saving your energy finding that person who would be more than happy to be saved by you?
I mean the bottom line is "Darnell" cant force a girl to like him because he considers himself a good man by his standards because different people have different standards. Some women might not like Darnell simply because of he may be too nice, some women just have things for Kappa's Q's, or fly **** ****'s in general. Different strokes for different folks man, I'm sure that Darnell, you, or whoever the hell this post is about(I lost track) may be the "ish" in the eyes of some girls, but by the same time he might not be relationship material for everybody.
I'm really not following you, you came into this post making it seem like you were bitching(no disrespect intended) because all women aren't feeling Darnell just because he considers himself a good man and is a hard worker, that's just not going to happen and it's not the nature of the world. There might be plenty of "good black men" to some owmen depending on their tastes, but maybe for another woman who has different tastes they may be few and far between..understand?
Hope I'm not losing you...
:roll: man pimptight why are you bashing everyones comments? What's the point of posting a topic of you're going to have some smartass comment to go along with anything said?
Ain't nobody trying to be Dr. Phil. I just call it like I see it. Anybody that always got question why they can't get anyone and blaming it on someone else, got some issues to me. Take a look at yourself cause you the only person you can change.
I'm sorry, yer not Dr. Phil, he could actually read what was posted.
Where within this post did I say, "I gotta question why I can't get anyone and I'm blaming it on someone else?" Matter of fact, where in ANY post have I put that?
there's a search feature at the top of the screen, use it and get back at me.
hey! Maybe I'm blind and I overlooked that part.
help me out.
:roll: man pimptight why are you bashing everyones comments? What's the point of posting a topic of you're going to have some smartass comment to go along with anything said?
Where within this post did I say, "I gotta question why I can't get anyone and I'm blaming it on someone else?" Matter of fact, where in ANY post have I put that?
You questioning why you can't get anyone
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Ya'll females have TOOOOOOOOOOOOOONNNSSS of guy friends who ya'll know are "Good Black Men". But are ya'll trying to date them?
Nope? Why? I don't know why, there are 1000s of excuses.
"He's like a brother to me."
"I don't see him like that"
"I just don't like him that way"
"I don't wanna ruin our friendship"
Maybe....JUUUUUUST maybe, if instead of chasing after that Fine-**** Kappa or that Nasty Que, you'd pay attention to the Darnel, you know Darnel, he's the guy that ALWAYS helps you with your Chemistry and Calculus homework. The guy you ALWAYS talk to whenever some guy has done you wrong. Go ahead and pay attention to Darnel, he might be one of those elusive "Black Men" ya'll are searching for.
You got serious issues with yourself and ain't nobody trying to be a psychologist. A doctor don't have to tell you, you got problems.
PS..Thanks for the shout out.
help me out.
