I am sure some of you have heard this song by Destiny's Child. If you haven't basically the song about how she/they would take care of their man. So my question is...would do the same for your man? Or are your feelings not that deep or strong enuff to show how much you care about them?
Cater 2 U? hmm.. lol
I'll do some ish for em. A lot. But I'm not washin your clothes or cleaning up after you or anything of that nature. I guess its cuz my mom never did it for my dad. He handled his. But i'll cook for my man, massage him down, and some other stuff :wink:
That's what I got from the song. I wouldn't be no got damn maid. Hell to the naw.
Ok...when I first heard this song...i seriously hated it. But its actually become one of my favorites off the cd.
But I dont know if I would go to the extremes like it seemed like they were doin. I mean...Beyonce was talkin bout "Let me help u take off yer shoes. Untie yer shoe strings, take off yer cuff-links." Im sorry...but the **** is not HANDICAP!!!! When I first heard that line I was like..."Oh this b*tch is crazy!" He can do all that stuff himself! But I would cater to my man, but only to a certain degree!
HOnestly right now I would do a lot for my man. I wouldn't do anything for him. But if times were hard for him and I was able I would step up and help him out. My boyfriend is my heart and I'm doing for him waht he would do for me.
I dont mind doing for my man, but the word " cater " it just sounds like Ima be on hand and feet for him all the time and that definitely wont be the case. The word cater just doesnt sit well with me. On another note, I personally think the song is pitiful...they go from being some " Survivors " and " Independent Women " to being caterers and wanting thugged out soldiers...Destiny's Child is a fukkin trip. :roll: :arrow:
I dont think that they are actually talking about waiting hand and foot on their man all the time. If you listen to the lyrics, you get the fact that the man is doing just as much for them and vice versa. She's just trying to do something in return for all the things he has done for her...
Yeah i do for him and do for me. Like wit some of my boyfriends I'll scratch they dandruff, grease they scalp, and blow dry they hair and he does the same for me. The person I talked to b4 my last boyfriend could grease a scalp like never before.
Yeah i do for him and do for me. Like wit some of my boyfriends I'll scratch they dandruff, grease they scalp, and blow dry they hair and he does the same for me. The person I talked to b4 my last boyfriend could grease a scalp like never before.
Yeah i do for him and do for me. Like wit some of my boyfriends I'll scratch they dandruff, grease they scalp, and blow dry they hair and he does the same for me. The person I talked to b4 my last boyfriend could grease a scalp like never before.
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Cosigns. That is serious. Never thought of that. :lol:
:o I will cater to my boo but when it becomes to the extreme like taking off your shoes & cufflinks, he will need to go back home to his mother on that one. I do and always have cooked and cleaned thats just me.
But like it was mention before it is def a 2 way street. Im not gonna cook if you arent going to help me take out my micro braids. LOL. You get the point lol.
My mother always taught me to have dinner prepared when your man comes home. So when my boo comes home except on tues, wednes and some thursday there is food made. Ox tails, collard greens, mac & chesse and corn bread.
Aww let me call my boo.
*Let Me Cater To You
Cause Baby This Is Your Day
Do Anything For My Man
Baby You Blow Me Away
I Got Your Slippers, Your Dinner, Your Dessert, And So Much More
Yeah i do for him and do for me. Like wit some of my boyfriends I'll scratch they dandruff, grease they scalp, and blow dry they hair and he does the same for me. The person I talked to b4 my last boyfriend could grease a scalp like never before.
Carrie thats some country shiet right there man lol
the cater to you song had to grow on me...
At first i use to be head sprung on not doing nothing for anybody i was with...but i'm not like that anymore...
And I just don't do those types of things w/anyone...like if he's just someone I'm talking too then nah..but if he's my boyfriend and we're u know very loving and all that...
I remember when i use to hate fixing a plate of food for my man..i was real big on " he can do it his damn self"...but nonw i realize it's a 2way street..you give and u get...
