I have a question to teh men of this board
When it comes to your girlfriend or just someone u really like, are u the type that spends money on them. Now I dont mean a dinner here and there I mean paying for hair, nails, small shoppin sprees, and imaybe even an allowance. If you dont do it , would you if you could afford or do u abosoluetly no spend money on a female like that ok....... go 8)
If you can do.
If you can't don't.
Some dudes just don't have the cash flow.
You always gotta take care of home first and foremost.
But the one thing I really hate to see is a dude with steady cashflow acting stingy with his girl.
That's your girl.
She's your silent soldier.
She'll go to bat for you in all types of battles you'd never ever know or find out about.
I must treat my woman special at all times.
But then again I've got the cashflow to do things like that.
All men don't.
Doesn't make me a pushover or a simp but secure.
I give a woman 100% from the jump.
If she's not giving back to me in a relationship or friendship then that percentage dwindles.
A female only has one strike with me.
If you can't independently discern the manner of man that I am from dealing with me as a mature black woman then I need to keep it moving.
Like I said I aint got no problem wit buyin gifts. But hair and nails is like not somethin Imma pay for. ****I aint pay for it beforewe got together why should I pay for it now. I aint got a problem spendin money on my girl ****ask my ex. But hell I already pay for like every date and I'll buy her somethin special every now n then but hair and nails.... If I asked a girl to pay for a date and pay for my haircut and new Js she would call me cheap and be out quick as hell. SAY SHE WONT!
Alright!
Like I said I aint got no problem wit buyin gifts. But hair and nails is like not somethin Imma pay for. ****I aint pay for it beforewe got together why should I pay for it now. I aint got a problem spendin money on my girl ****ask my ex. But hell I already pay for like every date and I'll buy her somethin special every now n then but hair and nails.... If I asked a girl to pay for a date and pay for my haircut and new Js she would call me cheap and be out quick as hell. SAY SHE WONT!
Alright!
...if i could afford it, you know i would...
it just shows her that you can take care of her...8) >>(stacy dash)
AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW You say a lot of sweet stuff... :wink:
Your not so bad.
No, this isn't the way it's supposed to be...he get's yourgirltasia..I get Brett...lol..
I want to show girls I care too...pick me pick me..(damn Im bored)..
i feel ya on dat dawg...still waiting on tasia to show me some love though...
*runs out of room crying*
When it comes to your girlfriend or just someone u really like, are u the type that spends money on them. Now I dont mean a dinner here and there I mean paying for hair, nails, small shoppin sprees, and imaybe even an allowance. If you dont do it , would you if you could afford or do u abosoluetly no spend money on a female like that ok....... go 8)
*runs out of room crying*
