....ummm if you are not ready....you are not ready....simple as that...any man that can't wait for you...or is pressuring you is not worth it....
obviously you might feel uncomfortable...but...if you value your virginity...then you'll do anything in your power to keep it...until you are ready...
"Pressure" ha ..that's just a word in the dictionary
if you can't handle the responsibility, then don't claim the title
i can go to a party and be the only sober one there and the finest boy in the world couldn't convince me to do what i don't do..which is i don't drink.
i was born acting silly. anyway, for those who enter college virgins, there are girls i know who don't go to college and who club more than college students and are almost 30...MAD OLD and still intact down there.
its the individual. if you are going to call yourself a "virgin" then stick by the title and accept the responsibility. if you think the words and attitudes of other people are going to sway you...then guess what, choose something else to say like "My white days are pending"
to all college virgins out there... HOORAY!!! i am so proud of you all, and wish that i had your patience and resolve. i couldn't hold on to my card up to this point... and i don't think that i'd be able to last too long down @ hampton.. the boys there are SO DAMN DELICIOUS... but anyways HOORAY to you all. i think i need to go pray now.
I'm 18 years old and I'm still a virgin. this has been my first week in college. I have a boiyfriend and he is willing to wait on me. I'm comfortable with being one. I'm not ashamed cuz all my friends say that they wish they still had theirs 8)
:lol: I thought virgins in college was like an urban legend for real. That's crazy. I thought i would be one of a few.
Your virginity is something that you should cherish. It's the one thing that you can give to only one guy and no other. I say, it depends on the guy. If he's not willing to wait for it, he can get to stepping cuz after all is said and done, you can't take that back. If I give it to someone, oh he's gonna work for it until I feel we're both ready to take that step and I can give that part of me away.
I encourage you to stay a virgin, if that's what you want. I have never done the peer pressure thing, that's what seperates girls from women. Knowing how to stand alone. I'm no longer a virgin, but I waited until I was ready. I was 19. So any consequences would fall solely on me. If you should chose to do it, that doesn't mean you have to keep doing it. So many guys think b/c you go together you have to give him some or pleasure him orally and you don't. If he constantly pressures you and is NOT supportive, let him go. At the end of the day you have to be satisfied with yourself.
That's right. I just can't see myself losing my virginity. Yes they be lookin HELLA, HELLA fine but naw... that's just temptation. I have often used the phrase "NO." to tell a guy just that, "no". I'm just not ready and with all the reported experimentation and people not using condoms and not getting tested. (Especially blacks)Helllllll naw. I aint tryin to get burnt. :o
