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Just To Have Something To Do Posted on 03-11-2005

laidbackfella
Orangeburg, SC
Would you agree to go out on a date, with a person you have NO interest in, just to have something to do? ETA: Some specific parameters. We are not talking about friends. We are not talking about someone you are cool with. No, Zero, Nil, Zilch interest.
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replied on 03-11-2005 11:07PM [Reply]
No because I don't want to mislead him. I can tell him that I don't feel for him all I want but if I agree to a date, then that sends the message that something has changed. I can treat my ownself to dinner and a movie.
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replied on 03-11-2005 11:10PM [Reply]
urbanizdskillz wrote:
No because I don't want to mislead him. I can tell him that I don't feel for him all I want but if I agree to a date, then that sends the message that something has changed. I can treat my ownself to dinner and a movie.
exactly!
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laidbackfella from Orangeburg, SC replied on 03-11-2005 11:17PM [Reply]

Dr. Ash wrote:
laidbackfella wrote:
Dr. Ash wrote:
I don't see a problem with just going out to have a good time. You never know, you may end up with more than just a free meal.
Do you generally have a good time with people you have no interest in?
It's not like you're trying to hook up with or holla at every person you come in contact with. Cool people are cool people, simple as that.
You did read where I mentioned no interest right?
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replied on 03-11-2005 11:42PM [Reply]
laidbackfella wrote:
Dr. Ash wrote:
laidbackfella wrote:
Dr. Ash wrote:
I don't see a problem with just going out to have a good time. You never know, you may end up with more than just a free meal.
Do you generally have a good time with people you have no interest in?
It's not like you're trying to hook up with or holla at every person you come in contact with. Cool people are cool people, simple as that.
You did read where I mentioned no interest right?
i think she's kinda missing the point....
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replied on 03-12-2005 01:22AM [Reply]
I guess we think of "no interest" in a different way. I guess ya'll are saying the person is **** **** **** out **** with no character and you're not interested in even KNOWING them. I see it like this, you can know someone but not be interested in them like that, ya dig? You can be cool with someone and not be interested in them (that is, not interested in dating them).
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laidbackfella from Orangeburg, SC replied on 03-12-2005 02:31PM [Reply]

Dr. Ash wrote:
I guess we think of "no interest" in a different way. I guess ya'll are saying the person is **** **** **** out **** with no character and you're not interested in even KNOWING them. I see it like this, you can know someone but not be interested in them like that, ya dig? You can be cool with someone and not be interested in them (that is, not interested in dating them).
I said NO interest. Being "cool" means that you share SOME interest with them. That interest may not be in them but in something that the two of you can talk about or do together. The NO interest I am speaking of means that you, for whatever reason, have NO interest in this person or their interests.
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Hahaha replied on 03-12-2005 02:41PM [Reply]
i wish a chick would do this to me
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La replied on 03-12-2005 02:43PM [Reply]
I have and would do it again.
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La replied on 03-12-2005 03:37PM [Reply]
Da_Rodfather wrote:
I refuse to spend money on a chick Im not interested in. And if I can see a girl not interested in my I aint gonna waste time on her. Females play too many games f**k that I aint got time for all that Sh*t
you seem angry :lol:
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laidbackfella from Orangeburg, SC replied on 03-12-2005 04:18PM [Reply]

Lady_ J wrote:
I have and would do it again.
Did you let that person know from the jump you weren't interested?
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