aight man, here's my take on why women these days get treated like crap..
it's about 90% their own dayum fault...we don't repect them because they don't repect themselves...
they don't repect thier bodies, the way they dress, the way they behave, ect ect... so why would i repect someone who doesn't repect themselves? the women of the 50s didn't have yalls problems, and i wonder why...
stop trying to sag and be "a n!gga" and be a lady...we don't repect **** and hoes, but any wild man wouldn't dare to hurt a classy chick....you ever notice how the goody good girls aren't prayed upon by thugs? it's not that they don't find them attractive, it's more because they don't want to "even hurt dat gurl, ya dig?"...classy girls are the "untouchables"...
ladies, up ya class game and you'll get men to repect you more...we don't repsect gurls based upon thier thuggish, hoeish repatations...
I just pretty much agree with all the females on this thread, and it just baffles me how men are SO QUICK to point out the faults of us women, and say we deserve to be disrespected when we dont carry ourselves a certain way, etc..but MEN never point the fingers at themselves....yall always have some bullsh*t excuse..." she doesnt respect herself, so Im not gonna respect her " " she acts like a ho, so Ima treat her like a ho. " When are yall gonna take responsibility and acknowledge the fault in yourselves and in carrying this type of mentalty...sorry but this aint the 50s no more...times have changed....Do I think its okay for a girl to fukk an entire block...No...she should have self respect for herself...but just because she DOESNT doesnt mean YALL have the right to not treat her like a person and disrespect her by calling her names....The whole block that fukked her...are they not as triflin as she is..DO you not treat them with respect cause they dont respect themselves. NO ya dont. Why? because their men? but its a female doing the same thing...shes a ho who doesnt deserve respect. The double standards are just ridiculous, i swear.
It is true that most women deserve to be disrespected. Not because of the way they dress but because they don't demand respect. For example when I first met my boyfriend he was so nice but after he felt like he had me he started actin out, not returnin my phone calls, standin me up for dates and etc. All I had to do was show his @ss that he was not in control and now he's beggin to have me back. Callin every day and sendin flowers. It's hard to believe it's even the same guy but I realize that respectin ourselves means not allowing anyone to treat u like sh*t. The sooner most females realize that the sooner they can take back their lives and we will really be back to the 50's when men cherished their women.Still haven't decided whether I forgive his @ss or not
^You shouldn't have to do that though. If you got to demand respect from a guy there's no use of wasting time with him. He should want to give you respect. But I get your point though.
It is true that most women deserve to be disrespected. Not because of the way they dress but because they don't demand respect. For example when I first met my boyfriend he was so nice but after he felt like he had me he started actin out, not returnin my phone calls, standin me up for dates and etc. All I had to do was show his @ss that he was not in control and now he's beggin to have me back. Callin every day and sendin flowers. It's hard to believe it's even the same guy but I realize that respectin ourselves means not allowing anyone to treat u like sh*t. The sooner most females realize that the sooner they can take back their lives and we will really be back to the 50's when men cherished their women.Still haven't decided whether I forgive his @ss or not
nice point...but ain't dat what i was trying to say? we treat yall bad because yall treat yaselves bad...wait i don't remember if it was this thread...man i be trippin 8-) (nessa)
