aight ladies...
lemme let yall in on a little secret...no man likes rejection...it doesn't matter if he's the ugliest man in the world, or denzel washington.....rejection s#cks some donley dongs...
lemme tell yall something that recently happened to me...
aight i was on my way home riding the bus....when i got on, there was a nice quiet looking chick sitting up front...she was about 5'1 looked to be like 130...little chubby but it was all good...so i cruised to the back cause that's my chill spot...
so we ride downtown to the station where everybody transfers....and it just so happen that me and this chick were going to be getting on the same bus again...so she gets on the bus first, and instead of sitting in the front, she goes alll the way to the back...i was surprised because usually chicks (especially small ones) are afraid to ride in the back because of all the crackheads...but it was just me, her and 4 other people on board so it was all good...so of course i go all the way to the back in the seat across from her because that's where i was gonna sit anyway...so why change up when there's a cute chick back there? i think she had an idea i was going back there...
so anyways, we exchanged akward glances for a ****...i just didn't really know if i wanted to holla
welp there was a crackhead sitting in front of us that was singing along to the radio all loud...we were listening to light 96 so he was singing Forever Young by rod stewart and it was funny as hell....then when that n1gga got off the bus, he was like "man, f#ck all you ****...yall n!ggas smell like some sh!t...." and then everybody was like "ooookay..."
so anyways, this served as an ice breaker, because we just started talking to eachother about how funny that sh!t was....so i dunno i finally got the courage to ask the chick for her number...she gave it to me quick as she got up cause her stop was up...and i was surprised cause she let me have it! i was feeling happy as hell riding home that night...
i was also **** as hell because i had a **** :grin:
but anyways, ladies, do you see how she gave me a sign? first by comming back there to sit with me, next with the glances...
ladies, what i'm trying to say here, is that if it's okay for us to holler at you, let us know...i know that we're suppose to be the ones on persuit, but please let us know if it's okay...
it's like airplanes landing on an airstrip....ladies, turn the lights on for us to let us know if it's safe to land...give us a little glance..."mistakenly" end up sitting by us...you know what i mean
cause all fellas fear rejection cause that sh!t don't feel good, i don' care who he is...
and it works in the opposite too....if you don't like us, then don't give us any hints...pleae don't be a d!ck teaser...if you don't like us, frown at us when we look at you...please don't confuse us...
aight, i'm done... 8-) (nessa)
i know when im feelin a dude i normally give lil hints, i flash a smile, glance at him when i know he is goin to look at me. BUT alot of the times that doesnt work... cause i know there have been some times when i just had to go up to them and act as the aggressor. EX: there is this guy i found extremly cute, and no matter how many hints i threw at him he never responded. so one day me and a friend were goin into the gym to work out(yes actually work out not clownin and flirtin) and my girl happened to know the dude. so while she was talkin to him i asked him his name(though i already knew it) he told me then again nothin.. i thought that would have at least broke the ice but it didnt. FINALLY i asked him if he wanted to come to my room and drink with me and my girl, THATS what did it. that night i told him that i had BEEN feelin him, but he said he never picked up on the hints, and that HE WAS SHY!!! but now things are good between us, even though it didnt turn out how i wanted it to( ME~N~HIM) i found myself a real good friend.. BUT make no mistake, if i can pull him from this chick who's got his head wrapped up, then it will be me and him. alot of the times our signals are good enough, yall fellas just dont catch them
Im not tryin to brag or anything but I have never been rejected by a guy before. I have been the rejector and it hurts me to do it at times :-( . I do sympathize with anyone who has been because I can see that it is tough. I try not to set myself up for rejection cus im sorta scared of lookin dumb
