my dad is a provider... thats about it. our relationship is not good at all. he is unfaithful and not a good role model at all. he is the prototype of the kind of guy that i DO NOT want to marry....
Idon't know how much of a relatioship my father and I have. I don't really know if you would call it a relationship. When I was in Pre-K, my father and my mother got a divorce. One of my earliest chidhood memories is my mother finding stuff from other women in my father's gym bag. After they got a divorce my father tried to maintain a relationship with my older brother and I, but as we grew up, he kind of forgot about us. He got a new family, and he does provide for them, but along the way he was just like forget y'all. My biggest problem is he never comes through. I hate for people to lie to me. Just about everything he says is a lie. I think he is part of the reason why I can't fully trust guys.
^^^u sound like me....
my story is kinda complicated my father was married twice...and hooked up with my mom in between both of those marriages :???: ...i moved to nc when i was five but i dont remember him being around much before i left....after moving back to ohio my freshman year i thought hed come around more...we live in the same cit...not even five minutes apart...and i can count on one hand our how many times ive had a conversation with him....i used to say growing up that not having my father around would never bother me but now that im older and im closer with my half brothers and sisters i realize that ive missed out on a very special relationship that i really needed....my father is a liar....he is the true definition of a coward to me....i dont understand why he doesnt make an effort when hes so close with all of his other children....and all i want is a phone call....i dont care about ur money i dont want a benz like the one my sisters drivin...just an occasional...."hows life treating u?"......i cant call him dad because "dad" is so personal to me and thats not what he has been so i call him by name or i dont address him at all....
so, no, i dont want to marry anyone like my father....my godfather has been around since i was five hes pretty cool...but not really someone id want as a father....i want my husband to be like older brother if anything....hes so respectful and responsible, reliable...real...honest.....everything i wish my father was
I love my father, and though he works a lot... we have good conversations... He worries about me all the time... But he can be weird in a good way and a bad way...
My parents are still together and we all live together... Ima daddys girl in a sorta kind of way! I think i appreciate him a lot more as I get older.
my dad is everything that i'd want in my husband. he's such a good provider, and he's there for me through thick and thin. i wouldn't take another father if i was offered one. we get along on most days, he has a hard time letting me grow up because i'm a "daddy's girl". but, we watch sportscenter together the football games together. i think that is what brings us so close. but he is odd, and on those days i just go to my room and leave him alone. i can't deal with all that weird in one day.
i remember blue skies walking the block...i i loved the way you held me high..i loved to hear you talk...you would take me to the movies...you would take me to the beach... 8-) (nessa)
Growing up in a military family can be rough on teenage children. My pops didn't make the transition well as he was called away to fight in this conflict or to train foreign soldiers. It ruined what was once a very close relationship, all the way until I got to college. Soon, he retired.
Ever since I turned 21, it's been him in my corner the entire time. He's saved my **** more times than I can recall, as I've gone throughout the f'ups of the twenties. We talk all the time and have a great respect for each other. He respects me trying to make my own way in life, and I respect the sacrifices he made for his family (I was conceived out of wedlock, and he married my mom).
Everyone knew from the start that I was a daddies boy; and many have heard me admit, that I would probably be more distraught and depressed over losing him than I would my mother.
My father and I have a relationship, albeit a good/terrible one.
My father is an vastly intelligent human being with a whole lot of arrogance.
I am also extremely intelligent with a huge ego in debates and an unruly arrogance.
Anytime we don't agree on two points, there will NEVER be any resolve and I can't tell you how many trips I've gone to the Hospital (3 times in the ER) from injuries suffered from my father or my father has from me.
We will never see eye-to-eye if we disagree. My father is a complete alcoholic (as in he doesn't drink anything else), so that never helps the situation either. He starts to engage physically and I am there to greet him everytime. He spent time in prison because of our arguments, and I in juvenile hall and jail.
But when I need him, he is there. When I need some advice, he gives it to me. Kind of weird.
We hate eachother at times, but it's only hatred fueled by our arrogance.
Thunder
My father is like a distant relative; like an older uncle. When I was little we had a good relationship but when he got with this woman things changed and never seem to get better. I see him every once in a while but he doesn't help my mom pay my tuition. He gives me about $50 every two months.
My parents are still together and we all live together... Ima daddys girl in a sorta kind of way! I think i appreciate him a lot more as I get older.
COSIGN!! I LOVE MY DAD SOOO MUCH!! I have a much better relationship with my dad than with my mom even though he's very protective over me... I'm definitley a "daddy's girl".
My parents are still together and we all live together... Ima daddys girl in a sorta kind of way! I think i appreciate him a lot more as I get older.
COSIGN!! I LOVE MY DAD SOOO MUCH!! I have a much better relationship with my dad than with my mom even though he's very protective over me... I'm definitley a "daddy's girl".
