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Losing Faith in Womankind... Posted on 05-04-2005
Wisdom_Tree
Texas City, TX
I dont know what it is about the things that us guys go through but are women becoming more and more... Whats the word.... Dispensible? Not me personally, but it seems like all of my good guy friends are being sh*tted on. Good guys with bright futures who could have anyone decide to take chances on women who start out great and find some way to not only f*ck sh*t up, but make it seem like its their fault. *inhale* Ive never seen so many unfaithful b*tches in my life. Treating men like pieces of meat without feelings...Im trying to keep my boys in line, but Im afriad they are going to become players and I wont be able to say anything that will change them around. I dont know if I want to. Cuz im sick to my stomach. Physically upset. Anyways, comments...
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replied on 05-05-2005 07:29PM [Reply]
MissJazzyAKA wrote:
Why do you insist on making this a lame vs. women thing?! Everytime a females makes a point, MOST of which are valid, you have something to say about it! We both have double standards but guys have been known to be dominate in this area...why is it like that??? I don't know but i blame the mindset. For women, it's kind of new(last few decades) because before we never had a voice in society.Back in the day women didn't have opinions if they did, it was moreso their husbands opinion.
Just because men are known to be dominant in this area doesn't mean that women don't do it just as much if not more. Girls do the EXACT thing we do, the only thing about it: They... don't... get... caught. And if they get caught: They deny... deny.... deny... deny. Trust me, this is personal experience speaking. Y'all are slick about that shyt, and you definately get kudos for that. But like I said: Just because you don't get caught, doesn't mean it doesn't happen.
MissJazzyAKA wrote:
Why do you insist on making this a lame vs. women thing?! Everytime a females makes a point, MOST of which are valid, you have something to say about it!
See the problem is... some of you (yes, this includes you :-) ) just will NOT admit you are wrong. It's like... you CAN'T be wrong. Yes, some of your points are VERY good. And some are VERY wrong. Yet some of you (including you again :grin: ) just refuse to admit you are wrong(which is why i said you remind me of my brother so much). And what you do then by not accepting that you're wrong is that you make comments to try to either a)flip the script b)change the topic by bringing something that's been said before c)avoid the question, and the most common d) contradict yourself to the MAX... I'm sorry, but I just call a spade a spade. Ain't nobody right all of the time. Hell... i'm wrong a LOT of the time. It ain't nothing, that's the only way I can learn.
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replied on 05-05-2005 07:29PM [Reply]
BigDaddy Tres wrote:
MissJazzyAKA wrote:
laidbackfella wrote:
I never had faith in women. I don't put Sh*t past no one.
That's why you'll never have sucess in a relationship. Also, people who don't trust anyone usually don't trust themselves.
People dont trust until they have reason to. Thats being cautious and until more people do right I wouldnt blame anyone whos skeptical of inherent goodness. That has nothing to do with inward perception; it comes from valid points of being hurt and betrayed - not from being naive.
THANK YOU. And to answer mzjazzyaka's question: I've done wrong and I've BEEN DONE wrong. Why trust anybody?
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laidbackfella from Orangeburg, SC replied on 05-05-2005 07:37PM [Reply]

MissJazzyAKA wrote:
laidbackfella wrote:
I never had faith in women. I don't put Sh*t past no one.
That's why you'll never have sucess in a relationship. Also, people who don't trust anyone usually don't trust themselves.
Trust in individuals and categorical faith in a gender are two different things. Make sure you stay in your lane, Jazzy cuz you don't know me nor what I do in relationships.
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replied on 05-05-2005 07:53PM [Reply]
laidbackfella wrote:
MissJazzyAKA wrote:
laidbackfella wrote:
I never had faith in women. I don't put Sh*t past no one.
That's why you'll never have sucess in a relationship. Also, people who don't trust anyone usually don't trust themselves.
Trust in individuals and categorical faith in a gender are two different things. Make sure you stay in your lane, Jazzy cuz you don't know me nor what I do in relationships.
Damn. Can I put that last line of yours ^^^ in my sig?
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laidbackfella from Orangeburg, SC replied on 05-05-2005 07:56PM [Reply]

Kool™ in High Definition wrote:
Damn. Can I put that last line of yours ^^^ in my sig?
Sure. Feel free.
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replied on 05-05-2005 08:05PM [Reply]
Kool™ in High Definition wrote:
laidbackfella wrote:
MissJazzyAKA wrote:
laidbackfella wrote:
I never had faith in women. I don't put Sh*t past no one.
That's why you'll never have sucess in a relationship. Also, people who don't trust anyone usually don't trust themselves.
Trust in individuals and categorical faith in a gender are two different things. Make sure you stay in your lane, Jazzy cuz you don't know me nor what I do in relationships.
Damn. Can I put that last line of yours ^^^ in my sig?
****. I was thinking the same shyt. I said "Damn!" when I read "stay in your lane". ****was fire.
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ClassyWisdom08 replied on 05-05-2005 08:25PM [Reply]
laidbackfella wrote:
MissJazzyAKA wrote:
laidbackfella wrote:
I never had faith in women. I don't put Sh*t past no one.
That's why you'll never have sucess in a relationship. Also, people who don't trust anyone usually don't trust themselves.
Trust in individuals and categorical faith in a gender are two different things. Make sure you stay in your lane, Jazzy cuz you don't know me nor what I do in relationships.
My lane?!? You just basically told everyone that you don't put faith into anyone. I was just responding so, don't get mad at my comments because i'm keeping it real. If you don't want a responce than don't post anything.
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replied on 05-05-2005 08:35PM [Reply]
MissJazzyAKA wrote:
My lane?!? You just basically told everyone that you don't put faith into anyone. I was just responding so, don't get mad at my comments because i'm keeping it real. If you don't want a responce than don't post anything.
Good point tho.
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laidbackfella from Orangeburg, SC replied on 05-05-2005 08:36PM [Reply]

MissJazzyAKA wrote:
My lane?!? You just basically told everyone that you don't put faith into anyone. I was just responding so, don't get mad at my comments because i'm keeping it real. If you don't want a responce than don't post anything.
Yes, your lane. I could careless about your comments. I'm telling you not to get reckless about the mouth. I'm not mad but while you are keepin it real, I need you to keep it right.
MissJazzyAKA wrote:
That's why you'll never have sucess in a relationship.
We've never talked about personal matters on the board or off. So you commenting on my personal life is like me commenting on the smell bubblin from your coochie. We've never been there, so neither of us has any knowledge of how good or bad it may be. Can you hear me now?
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replied on 05-05-2005 08:51PM [Reply]
laidbackfella wrote:
MissJazzyAKA wrote:
My lane?!? You just basically told everyone that you don't put faith into anyone. I was just responding so, don't get mad at my comments because i'm keeping it real. If you don't want a responce than don't post anything.
Yes, your lane. I could careless about your comments. I'm telling you not to get reckless about the mouth. I'm not mad but while you are keepin it real, I need you to keep it right.
MissJazzyAKA wrote:
That's why you'll never have sucess in a relationship.
We've never talked about personal matters on the board or off. So you commenting on my personal life is like me commenting on the smell bubblin from your coochie. We've never been there, so neither of us has any knowledge of how good or bad it may be. Can you hear me now?
*Grabs a beer and a philly cheese steak sub....*
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