I think some people have too altruistic values when it comes to getting into a relationship and planning on sustaining it when you want to be "committed". It does take a roof over your head, because its a common place where the two of you can be together and see your true selves outside of the world. It takes money to have your own place, so thats also assuming you have a job, which would mean you have some sort of worth ethic. Of course you have to have a certain personality to be committed, but that comes along with getting to know a person. Once you believe you "fully" know them, you should look at the more practical aspects of keeping the relationship healthy and going.
If I had to pick anything on the list it would be investments. I want to be able to take care of myself. But It would be a lot more things before I get there.....He has to be right for me off tops.....Respect me and my goals...want the best for me and himself.. things like that!
~ High school diploma ( college in not for everyone)
~ A Job ( hell if imma get up erryday while u stay home and keep me updated on Maury)
~ Respect ( you can't love me if u don't respect me)
~ Sense of humor ( I stay laughin' so u can't be a hornball and tell me 2 be nice all the time)
See, we should clone yo ****...cuz some of these other gullz want too much for too little. They wanna man with a college degree, goals, money, working on another degree, money, fine as hell with abs of steel, money, a nice car, a big nice place to stay, big feet, big hands, big d!ck, respects his mama, spiritual, a lot of money, treat her stankin **** like a queen, money...... Come on now, lets be real.
:arrow: Like ole' girl said...as long as she graduated high school, she's straight.
:arrow: She can't have stank feet (or anything else for that matter)
:arrow: She gotta be able to read, write, all that good stuff
:arrow: She gotta be decent with kids
:arrow: She can't be scared to watch the news (i mean, most people with sense want to know whats going on in the world)
:arrow: If she's computer illiterate, i can teach her
:arrow: She gotta have a job. I don't really care what she does, as long as there are taxes taken out of her checks, and her money's contributing to the bills, we're straight.
:arrow: She cannot have a whoremonger background.
:arrow: She has to have a sense of humor (cuz i got a big one..almost to the point of just plain silly)
:arrow: She gotta love God
These may seem like a lot, but its not.
:arrow: Like ole' girl said...as long as she graduated high school, she's straight.
:arrow: She can't have stank feet (or anything else for that matter)
:arrow: She gotta be able to read, write, all that good stuff
:arrow: She gotta be decent with kids
:arrow: She can't be scared to watch the news (i mean, most people with sense want to know whats going on in the world)
:arrow: If she's computer illiterate, i can teach her
:arrow: She gotta have a job. I don't really care what she does, as long as there are taxes taken out of her checks, and her money's contributing to the bills, we're straight.
:arrow: She cannot have a whoremonger background.
:arrow: She has to have a sense of humor (cuz i got a big one..almost to the point of just plain silly)
:arrow: She gotta love God
These may seem like a lot, but its not.
It really isn't. That's basically what I look for in a guy as well. And he has to drive. If I feel like bein scooped, my boo gotta be able to come get me :twisted:
:arrow: NO KIDS!!!
:arrow: Have to have a degree/ in school or have a trade.
Cant be with no woman working an hourly job...Gotta be able to bring something to the table....
:arrow: Must not be ignorant...I have to be able to talk from topics on CNN to the NBA playoffs. I hate when people dont know basic things: Simple Geography, Members of the Presidents Cabinet, The difference between the House and the Senate, etc.
Higher standards only bring higher QUALITY.....!!!
~ High school diploma ( college in not for everyone)
~ A Job ( hell if imma get up erryday while u stay home and keep me updated on Maury)
~ Respect ( you can't love me if u don't respect me)
~ Sense of humor ( I stay laughin' so u can't be a hornball and tell me 2 be nice all the time)
See, we should clone yo ****...cuz some of these other gullz want too much for too little. They wanna man with a college degree, goals, money, working on another degree, money, fine as hell with abs of steel, money, a nice car, a big nice place to stay, big feet, big hands, big d!ck, respects his mama, spiritual, a lot of money, treat her stankin **** like a queen, money...... Come on now, lets be real.
errm, i do exist.... well except for the car and big nice place to stay (well i guess i have both of those when i'm back home)...
oh and errm im working on that 1st degree right now, stay tuned more to come!
settle for the MARTA and morehouse suites? :twisted:
~ High school diploma ( college in not for everyone)
~ A Job ( hell if imma get up erryday while u stay home and keep me updated on Maury)
~ Respect ( you can't love me if u don't respect me)
~ Sense of humor ( I stay laughin' so u can't be a hornball and tell me 2 be nice all the time)
See, we should clone yo ****...cuz some of these other gullz want too much for too little. They wanna man with a college degree, goals, money, working on another degree, money, fine as hell with abs of steel, money, a nice car, a big nice place to stay, big feet, big hands, big d!ck, respects his mama, spiritual, a lot of money, treat her stankin **** like a queen, money...... Come on now, lets be real.
WHAT :roll: Ion givadayum about what everybody else looks for in a mate standards wise!!! It's my mate and my dayum OPINION!!! I could have said no fat boys but then u would have took offense 2 that. Anyway, fugg having all this money and a car if yo **** can't read ( how da hell u gon' know when the ****requires maintenance) A diploma is a MUST who gives a dayum about a nugka w/ big hands? he might just be some country nugka that was born late...no go that way b4 u make me 4get i'm a child of gawd!!! :arrow:
