Hey. it's me again. Now I was at Six Flags today and I came to the conclusion that Im just freakin un aproachable and I dont want to be.
Now not to toot my own horn but Im pretty and stuff but not a lot of guys try to talk to me. When somebody do they be like they thought I was gonna be mean or try to play them. I cant help it I have a mean face. I could be havin a perfect day and somebody be like "why dont u try to smile" and I dont even be mad. My mother has a mean face too and is nice. This is crazy Im sick of being single but no one comes up to me (or at least no one I want to)
Anybody else have this problem. How do u have a friendly face?
I def. feel what your saying, because i feel the same way all the time, like a guy will you know smile and glance or whatever, but he'll never say anything, he'll walk away towards another girl. I dunno, in the mall sometimes guys will say 'yo, don't talk to her she stuck up' those are the good looking ones, but the **** ones.. i mean they are the only ones that have some kinda say cause they'll come up 's'excuse me miss, whats yo name' and i am like.. i dunno.. but yea, good luck on everything.. chin up i guess :-D
dunno, in the mall sometimes guys will say 'yo, don't talk to her she stuck up' those are the good looking ones, but the **** ones.. i mean they are the only ones that have some kinda say cause they'll come up 's'excuse me miss, whats yo name' and i am like.. i
YES. U FEEL ME. I WAS STARTING TO THINK **** WAS IN AND ALL THE GUYS WERE FOLLOWING THAT TREND. BUT ON SOME REAL I AM GONNA TRY BUT NOT TOO HARD TO PUT THE WELCOMING FACE ON
Now not to toot my own horn but Im pretty and stuff but not a lot of guys try to talk to me. When somebody do they be like they thought I was gonna be mean or try to play them. I cant help it I have a mean face. I could be havin a perfect day and somebody be like "why dont u try to smile" and I dont even be mad. My mother has a mean face too and is nice. This is crazy Im sick of being single but no one comes up to me (or at least no one I want to)
Anybody else have this problem. How do u have a friendly face?
I have the same problem. Every dude is like " you are too intimidating" plus i do have a smart mouth and can shoot a dude down really quick. But umm dont change yourself if they really wanna get at you they will and they will realize that in all actuality you are probably one of the coolest girls they have ever met.
Dudes used to tell me everyday on my way to class to smile back when I went to CAU.I used to just think it was a line for most of them.But I do think sometimes that a person may be thinking about something or nothing at all and just have a certain facial expression without knowing it.But like other people have said if a dude really wants to talk to you he will make that effort.I've had dudes start conversations with me when I looked "mad".
Woooo I can definately identify with you on this issue. I used to think that maybe I wasn't being approached by males because I didn't look good enough or maybe the other girls who were being approached were prettier than me. But I had to stop blaming myself, cause I know I'm not ****.
I think facial expression does have a lot to do with it, because if I'm walking down the street by myself I will have on the most serious expression even if I'm in a good mood. Dudes always talkin about "Smile sweetheart, or whas wrong?" I dunno why but I just can't walk down the street by myself smiling, I feel like an idiot lol. I just think that males don't approach me because something about me must be intimidating.
Think of something funny or nice. Usually when I'm minding me own business that when guys want holla at me (really, like... "AYE!!") but I guess what I'll saying is if your not focused on them, their focused on you. Go Figure!
Hey. it's me again. Now I was at Six Flags today and I came to the conclusion that Im just freakin un aproachable and I dont want to be.
Now not to toot my own horn but Im pretty and stuff but not a lot of guys try to talk to me. When somebody do they be like they thought I was gonna be mean or try to play them. I cant help it I have a mean face. I could be havin a perfect day and somebody be like "why dont u try to smile" and I dont even be mad. My mother has a mean face too and is nice. This is crazy Im sick of being single but no one comes up to me (or at least no one I want to)
Anybody else have this problem. How do u have a friendly face?
I've had this problem for a while and not just with males, people always tell me that I am not approachable, random older men always tell me to smile, my favorite is when people walk up to me and say "Smile it's not THAT bad!" lol, and its funny cause I'm always happy I just may not always show it. But because of this I have a "stuck up" reputation and it has even followed me to college and I had to evaluate myself and try and see what others saw, and I know that I am not stuck up, I would never disrespect or embarass someone who tried to speak to me or get to me and many people had no problem approaching me, so I rationalized it as the people(male and females) who do look at me and believe I am intimidating and have never shared one word with me have some serious self-esteem/confidence issues, and in my experience people who lack self-esteem have the most issues and are the most self-destructive of all the people I've ever came across so it come out in my benefit in that it saves me drama.
Would you really want a man that was intimidated by your facial expression and he's not even talking to you?
If he doesn't think he can bring a smile to your face it's probably best that he stays wherever he is.
What would happen when he sees his own shadow?
Please get that said. I can't stand when someone says that about me. It says a lot about your confidence. I have heard everything from "you just looked so mean" to "you're so fine I just knew a bunch of brothers were sweating you anyway so...", etc. These guys can never figure out why they are still just a friend :-(
Facial expressions? Give me abreak.. If you look good.. You just look good... And if a guy is afraid to talk to you.. He's just afraid to talk to you....
I have the same problem.
I want you to think about something though.
When Predators are looking for women to rob or worse, they look for easy prey. Something quick to grab, they don't want trouble. These guys that think you are mean, they just want something quick and easy.
You think about that long and hard.
Do you want a 100 predators after you? or do you want to someday meet a warm gentleman?
When you answer that question, you'll know which places to hang out in, to catch the eye of the people who YOU want to approach you.
Well I used to walk around and people say I was looking mad like I want to swing at the nearest person. Yet in highschool when I kept a smile on my face people didn't trust me or thought I was about to say something funny or just to happy for no reason.....
Either way black people are going judge so keep your eyebrows relaxed with a calmly set tempo and that is when people know things are ok.
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