Greeks: What/Who was your motivation to pursue membership into your respective organization?
GDI's: What/Who is your motivation to pursue* membership into the organization you are interested in?
*Replying discretion is advised
I'll start...
My motivation came from the interaction that I had with A Phi A since I first became a Bulldog. I started my attendance at SC State during the Summer of 2003 through The SCAMP program. Because a majority of the Alpha's came through this program, they were used as mentors/tutors for the incoming freshmen. On top of that, the man who is over the program, is the advisor of the chapter who eventually became a father figure to me. Because they showed me so much love when I wasn't Frat, that showed me that they have a genuine brotherhood that I want to be a part of and finally became a part of. So my motivation was the realness that these boys showed me and how they represented themselves on our campus.
if this has already been a topic, then my bad :? ; post anyway
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I can pretty much guess what Brett wants to pledge.... so GOOD LUCK GIRL!!!!
I hope that you get to where you want to be....
One of these days I'mma write my motivation... but that will be one LONG post... :???:
GDI's: What/Who is your motivation to pursue* membership into the organization you are interested in?
*Replying discretion is advised (I'll do my very best on that)
Actually, I used to have the complete Wrong Idea about what greek life was. As an outsider looking in, I just saw the step shows and colors and all the hype that I had no idea about what the real thing was behind it even though both my parents are carriers of greek letters. And as some of you may or may not remember I had a GDI fiasco on this board and asked one of those ignorant questions that so many others in my position ask because of sheer ignorance. (no excuse) Anyway, I of course recieved negative feedback, but incidently, in my opinion, not negative enough. I know some non-greeks feel that greeks are too harsh, but I feel they have earned the right. Anyway, after that fiasco, I decided to really research each sorority and see what they were all about and I realized that there was a whole other world behind it, one that really makes a supreme impact on society. Although I feel that all of them are wonderful, I decided on sorority XYZ because felt that this organization was one that I could really feel a part of and make a real impact on society with. Also, two strong, beautiful members of XYZ have really had quite an impact on my life. I've seen how they have become wonderful contributing members of society, but more than that they are women that I look up to and I feel honored to have known them for so long; not just as members of XYZ, but as strong African American women that I hope to someday become.
So...in a way, you'all at hbcuconnect helped me to decide what to pledge.
Greeks: What/Who was your motivation to pursue membership into your respective organization?
GDI's: What/Who is your motivation to pursue* membership into the organization you are interested in?
*Replying discretion is advised
This is going to be kinda tough for me. I hope that I won't offend any Greeks w/ my response or give out any clues as to which sorority I'm pursuing. Also, just like Miss_OES, I'm going to be real:
My mother, my maternal grandmother, my aunt (mom's sister) and great-aunt (grandma's sister) are all members of various sororities, with the exception of one. For many years, my mother has (and still is) my motivator. At age 18, I started doing research on all 4 sororities, and having private conversations w/ Greeks about Greek life. Also, when I observe her sorority sisters, they always exuded pride, sisterhood, professionalism, etc in my eyes. I've also had past teachers who are members of different sororities as well, but I don't consider them my motivators. But now, I'm starting to think that my mother's sorority may not be for me (which I won't get into.) All 4 sororities have something that I like about them, therefore I'm now kinda confused as to which one I truly want to pursue.:???: I know that's sad, but I'm only being real.
why is that sad? You are still figuring out what you want. It would be sad if you pledged your moms sorority JUST cause your a legacy and your heart is not into it...basically doin it for the wrong reasons...atleast you recognize that you are unsure of what you wanna do and still researchin what is best and right for you. Pray on it, and let God reveal it to you.
I agree. If there is any doubt in your head whatsoever, then holding out is a good thing. U don't want to make a life long commitment to something that u may be unsure about. Good luck to u hun. Like Mila said, pray about it. Don't let the decision seem so forced, let it come to u. If it's meant to be...it will
Okay here's my story.
In 6th grade I started band and I was really exvcited about playing the flute and I found out that it was something I loved to do. Music became apart of me. I started auditioning for the All County Band and I made it every year and one year I made All District...never got to All State but that didn't stop me. In high school I marched with my flute my freshman year and then the other three years I did flags but second semester I would play in the Symphonic band. Soooo it was my Senior year and my schedule did not have space for band second semester so I didnt play. That summer after I graduated all my friends were like "Jeree' u gonna do band in college right?" and I was like "No. I think I'm done"
But I thought about it and I was like yea imma do marching band but not 2nd semester band. So I call up Mr. Reid and he sends me info on Band Camp.
When I got to camp I saw all these girls rockin TBS shirts. I had seen other Greek organizations but I was like what in the world is TBS?!?! Come to find out they don't march flutes in college (well at central we dont) so they put a piccolo in my hand. Thats when I called my daddy and was like "Come get me I wanna go home" but he was like NO! and I cried so long cause im the baby and I always get my way and for my daddy to tell me NO that was like the world ending.
But my section leader was in TBS so she was like "Im not gonna let u quit you gonna be the best Piccolo player if its up to me." So she worked with me and I finally got it and at the same time learning somethings about the ladies of TBS. So in November went to the meeting and started in Jan and in March we finalized everything and now because of all the help and love I got from everyone I'm in TBS!
Now that I'm in it I hope to do the same if someone else like me comes along and plus I LOVE DA BAND! LOL but I want to further help Mr. Reid and Mr. Clemons in their vision for our band
Greeks: What/Who was your motivation to pursue membership into your respective organization?
GDI's: What/Who is your motivation to pursue* membership into the organization you are interested in?
*Replying discretion is advised
This is going to be kinda tough for me. I hope that I won't offend any Greeks w/ my response or give out any clues as to which sorority I'm pursuing. Also, just like Miss_OES, I'm going to be real:
My mother, my maternal grandmother, my aunt (mom's sister) and great-aunt (grandma's sister) are all members of various sororities, with the exception of one. For many years, my mother has (and still is) my motivator. At age 18, I started doing research on all 4 sororities, and having private conversations w/ Greeks about Greek life. Also, when I observe her sorority sisters, they always exuded pride, sisterhood, professionalism, etc in my eyes. I've also had past teachers who are members of different sororities as well, but I don't consider them my motivators. But now, I'm starting to think that my mother's sorority may not be for me (which I won't get into.) All 4 sororities have something that I like about them, therefore I'm now kinda confused as to which one I truly want to pursue.:???: I know that's sad, but I'm only being real.
why is that sad? You are still figuring out what you want. It would be sad if you pledged your moms sorority JUST cause your a legacy and your heart is not into it...basically doin it for the wrong reasons...atleast you recognize that you are unsure of what you wanna do and still researchin what is best and right for you. Pray on it, and let God reveal it to you.
The reason I think it's sad for me is because I thought I had decided on the sorority that was right for me, now I'm having doubts (and I have 1 more year in college!) It's kinda irritating to me. I do all the research, speaking to Greeks on a personal level and whatnot and now these doubts started kicking in! You just don't understand... :x
Okay here's my story.
In 6th grade I started band and I was really exvcited about playing the flute and I found out that it was something I loved to do. Music became apart of me. I started auditioning for the All County Band and I made it every year and one year I made All District...never got to All State but that didn't stop me. In high school I marched with my flute my freshman year and then the other three years I did flags but second semester I would play in the Symphonic band. Soooo it was my Senior year and my schedule did not have space for band second semester so I didnt play. That summer after I graduated all my friends were like "Jeree' u gonna do band in college right?" and I was like "No. I think I'm done"
But I thought about it and I was like yea imma do marching band but not 2nd semester band. So I call up Mr. Reid and he sends me info on Band Camp.
When I got to camp I saw all these girls rockin TBS shirts. I had seen other Greek organizations but I was like what in the world is TBS?!?! Come to find out they don't march flutes in college (well at central we dont) so they put a piccolo in my hand. Thats when I called my daddy and was like "Come get me I wanna go home" but he was like NO! and I cried so long cause im the baby and I always get my way and for my daddy to tell me NO that was like the world ending.
But my section leader was in TBS so she was like "Im not gonna let u quit you gonna be the best Piccolo player if its up to me." So she worked with me and I finally got it and at the same time learning somethings about the ladies of TBS. So in November went to the meeting and started in Jan and in March we finalized everything and now because of all the help and love I got from everyone I'm in TBS!
Now that I'm in it I hope to do the same if someone else like me comes along and plus I LOVE DA BAND! LOL but I want to further help Mr. Reid and Mr. Clemons in their vision for our band
I see you Soror! Holla atcha Bruhs up at the Mecca!
Come to find out they don't march flutes in college (well at central we dont) so they put a piccolo in my hand. Thats when I called my daddy and was like "Come get me I wanna go home" but he was like NO! and I cried so long cause im the baby and I always get my way and for my daddy to tell me NO that was like the world ending.
lol....that transition from flute to piccolo can be crucial.
My story: When I getting ready to start college, my family and friends at home kept telling me how I should join a sorority....they were super-excited about me going away to school (plus they watch too much TV).
Freshman year, I just learned about the different orgs through observation. I was already trying to get hang of college classes and being in the band, so joining a sorority wasn't on the top of my list of things-to-do. When I considered it and did some research I didn't think that it was something I wanted to do anymore. None of the orgs were in line with my personal beliefs. Plus, I'm not really a "people person" and I don't like to be around large groups.
During the summer, I came across Swing's national website and some chapter sites. When I put in an inquiry, I received a bunch of emails and a couple of calls from the sisters. When some of the sisters dropped some deep knowledge on me, I knew that Swing was for me :grin: It was in line with my personal beliefs and it's a smaller org (which is a plus).
My sophomore year, I got to know some of the chapter sisters, went to a meeting, yada, yada, yada.......and here I am (a year later) :-D
