That your significant other is on ****?
And I dont mean weed or ****...I mean, what if you found out that your bf/gf had been experimenting with stuff like ****, crack or ****?
In my current relationship I would have to stay for a while and help her. It is funny that so many of yall are saying "hell naw, I would have to go". But what if that person was your boyfriend/girlfriend and your best friend all in one? I am not sure what kind of relationships some of yall get in but my relationship consist of someone who is a friend (my best friend) first then my girlfriend.
So.....yes, I would stay in my relationship. Now of course if she was stealing and not trying to get in rehab eventually I would have to go
Thats all well and good J, and in an ideal world, thats exactly how it should be. But we not in an ideal world. See I look at it from her point of view. Would she stay with a f*ck up like me (for doing carck or **** or wuteva else) when there are so many other men out there that she could be leading a better life with? Nope. She'd be out. Therefore, if u using hard ****, go chill wit thugs, and since i ain't no ****, she gots to go. It ain't cruel, its reality
I have looked at it from my girlfriends point of view. And since as I said before we are friends first she would help me out before just dropping me from the beginning.
How can u say u are someones friend and partner then drop them as soon as they mess up a little bit?? Yep, I see so well how people can say when they were down people dropped them and quit talking to them. And as I said, if she is flat out stealing all your sh*t then duh, it is time to move on. But not all crackheads and people on **** go out and steal everyones things. I am saying why not try to help her first then perhaps end it if the help doesn't help?
In my current relationship I would have to stay for a while and help her. It is funny that so many of yall are saying "hell naw, I would have to go". But what if that person was your boyfriend/girlfriend and your best friend all in one? I am not sure what kind of relationships some of yall get in but my relationship consist of someone who is a friend (my best friend) first then my girlfriend.
So.....yes, I would stay in my relationship. Now of course if she was stealing and not trying to get in rehab eventually I would have to go
Thats all well and good J, and in an ideal world, thats exactly how it should be. But we not in an ideal world. See I look at it from her point of view. Would she stay with a f*ck up like me (for doing carck or **** or wuteva else) when there are so many other men out there that she could be leading a better life with? Nope. She'd be out. Therefore, if u using hard ****, go chill wit thugs, and since i ain't no ****, she gots to go. It ain't cruel, its reality
I have looked at it from my girlfriends point of view. And since as I said before we are friends first she would help me out before just dropping me from the beginning.
How can u say u are someones friend and partner then drop them as soon as they mess up a little bit?? Yep, I see so well how people can say when they were down people dropped them and quit talking to them. And as I said, if she is flat out stealing all your sh*t then duh, it is time to move on. But not all crackheads and people on **** go out and steal everyones things. I am saying why not try to help her first then perhaps end it if the help doesn't help?
Well we on two different pages cuz, if she respected me, and respected herself, she wouldn't be doing it. If you can't respect yourself, then you have no business being with me
ewww I mean I love hard in a relationship, but I can't be with a dealer or a user. It's not me. I would try to get them to see the light as someone who cares for them. Relationship wise that's not who I am and something I can deal with. They are too damn random.
:lol: ****!!
But that is true though, I don't want to go through all that b.s. with my man bein on **** and stuff. He would have to go...but I would still try to help him as a friend.
