ok...so i have a problem and i need some opinions .....
i'm interested in an organization, but i dont really know who the members are.....but they dont wear any nalia to acknowledge their affiliation...and they also dont hold programs at all to help interested members a chance to get to kno them....so i'm lost and i'm afraid my chance to join this org may pass by since i dont kno any members...
ok..i kno 1 member but they seem to have an attitude so i'm afraid to approach them cuz i dont kno if they're havin a bad day or sumthin...should i jus take the chance wen i get to skool and approach this person or wat..i'm lost...please help me out....
i want to join cuz i agree wit their purpose, what they stand for...and wen/if i get to join this org...i plan on havin lots of programs and doin plenty of community service...i kno alot of people who want to join and we all have the same ideas...we all love wat this org is about..and we will help bring the org to bein recognized again on campus...
and jus cuz on my campus they not doin anything the other chapters do...and i'm not gonna let the chapter at my skool ruin my whole idea of the org...
i want to join cuz i agree wit their purpose, what they stand for...and wen/if i get to join this org...i plan on havin lots of programs and doin plenty of community service...i kno alot of people who want to join and we all have the same ideas...we all love wat this org is about..and we will help bring the org to bein recognized again on campus...
and jus cuz on my campus they not doin anything the other chapters do...and i'm not gonna let the chapter at my skool ruin my whole idea of the org...
i want to join cuz i agree wit their purpose, what they stand for...and wen/if i get to join this org...i plan on havin lots of programs and doin plenty of community service...i kno alot of people who want to join and we all have the same ideas...we all love wat this org is about..and we will help bring the org to bein recognized again on campus...
and jus cuz on my campus they not doin anything the other chapters do...and i'm not gonna let the chapter at my skool ruin my whole idea of the org...
You know what that was a great answer. You busted me out...
i want to join cuz i agree wit their purpose, what they stand for...and wen/if i get to join this org...i plan on havin lots of programs and doin plenty of community service...i kno alot of people who want to join and we all have the same ideas...we all love wat this org is about..and we will help bring the org to bein recognized again on campus...
and jus cuz on my campus they not doin anything the other chapters do...and i'm not gonna let the chapter at my skool ruin my whole idea of the org...
I understand that..good answer...BUT keep in mind that things are usually done for a reason (maybe they don't have these things for reasons unknown to you...as some 1 stated prior...maybe they ARE suspended...that's actually the only other thing that I can come up with). On a different note you also have to understand that as a new person coming in its not as easy to change the things that you don't like as it is to speak about them (am I saying that it is impossible? NO).
All that I can say is...keep ur head up, continue your research (if you started), and speak to the sole member that u know of...in a discrete manner of course...heck while ur at it you should ASK when the next program is. YOU CAN NEVER KNOW UNLESS YOU ASK...just make sure that when asking to follow proper protocol...cause if not...(well that's another story).
AND THIS IS REAL TALK!!!!
