if you're out and about and you see a gentleman you like
would you go up to him and start talkin to him?
or are you the type to let the men come up to you?
I have never went up to a guy for myself, if a friend of mine likes a guy and can't muster up the strength to talk to him, i do it for her, because hey, i don't want to talk to him, I've done that so many times.
But i can't seem to do it for myself, i don't think i am confident in myself to do so. I would love to have that additude where i don't care all the time but i don't.
So usually guys approach me..
BTW; P.R. Model! its so nice to see another Afro-Latina on the board!
I believe that men should make the first move. Now that being said I won't go up and ask a guy for his number but I will flirt to make it obivous that I'm open to giving him my number. From that point on it's up to him, but that has come back to haunt I have heard a lot that "I really like you but since you didn't make a move I didn't think you were intrested" but I still like going by what I said.
I am To be pursued Iam not the one to pursue, I know that may sound conceited but hey......its real talk. :grin:
I totally agree I think guys like it that way to because guys like to be the chaser not the chased. From what I've heard guys don't like girls who are that bold they usually see the girls as a quick ****. I'm not saying every guy but just from what i've heard from guys that's how it is.
I would go up to him but not to the point so he no that im feelin him becuz some dudes dont like bold **** gurls like that while some do and in the end i could make a fool out of myself
I guess Im old fashioned I liked to be chased. I will wait for the fella to approach me. Dont want to look like Im running up behind anyone. Feel me?
CINDERELLA
I guess Im old fashioned I liked to be chased. I will wait for the fella to approach me. Dont want to look like Im running up behind anyone. Feel me?
CINDERELLA
ME TOO! i'm a very patient person! i let um know off the bat, i'm not gon chase u like so of these other lil girls may do (unless u give me a reason too:blush
