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WHY DO GIRLS COME TO clubs AND NOT DANCE?or is that jus fam?

50 replies · 18294 views · Started by tdx5000 · Dec 2005
tdx5000 oakland, CA
when i transfered down to fam, caLI native., i was suprised at the fact that the girls don't dance... i mean,you don't have to grind on people but jus standing in the back? why come?..... i personally refuse to holla at girls in the club.. yellin in each others ears.....competin with 85,0000 other cats...i'd rather find a better place to get at females that i don't have to pay for. :???:
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saxxxmepoetically · Dec 2005
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R-Tistic wrote:
I donno, I have never tried to buy drinks. It just seems like somethin that will never get you anywhere. Also, I always say why should I buy them drinks to help them get tipsy so that some other dude they already got lined up can have their way with them later on?
like i said ealier its all in how yall come at us. and also like i said before, buying a drink is a just a way to get her attention. like i said just try
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2muchWillRanAwayfromHome! · Dec 2005
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saxxxmepoetically wrote:
R-Tistic wrote:
I donno, I have never tried to buy drinks. It just seems like somethin that will never get you anywhere. Also, I always say why should I buy them drinks to help them get tipsy so that some other dude they already got lined up can have their way with them later on?
like i said ealier its all in how yall come at us. and also like i said before, buying a drink is a just a way to get her attention. like i said just try
I agree somewhat!! But some girls will not trust a guy buying them and drink so why spend money if she is gonna end with another cat later on thats what normally happens. Conversation is key not buying her drink its all about game, if she thinks she is to good to speak f@%^ her. 10/1 ratio for every 1 man its 10 women it works in our favor.
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tdx5000 · Dec 2005
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about that buying a drink thing........i guess i see where the female is coming from, but at the same time, why you gotta spend money on the girl to get her attention? i mean, i'm a student, so i'm not balling enough to spend 5,6,10 on a drink to get a number, and even if i could, i feel as if i shouldn't have to, and second, i dont drink so........... i just don't think buying someone the liq is how you should approach them, but i guess thats a diff topic entirely..... :???:
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ClassyWisdom08 · Dec 2005
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I'm not big on clubs and never have been but I have gone a few times during my college years(dragged unwillingly). I admit to being the one who does not dance...**** me! I just can't get with strangers invading my personal space while I dance. That irritates the heck out of me.
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· Dec 2005
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^^^....Lol. Now see, I feel you. Clubs can be hella crowed, and strange people are constamtly invading your personal space. I bet mad dudes tried to approach you thinkin you would dance with em though.
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· Dec 2005
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Im sorry but if im payin $5, $7, $10-to get into the club/party...best believe im out shakin ma a*s. Imma dance my money's worth..lol. I have never been known to NOT dance. I dont really care too much for clubs nowadays though, but parties are another thing. :-D
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tdx5000 · Dec 2005
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DEEliciouS wrote:
Im sorry but if im payin $5, $7, $10-to get into the club/party...best believe im out shakin ma a*s. Imma dance my money's worth..lol. I have never been known to NOT dance. I dont really care too much for clubs nowadays though, but parties are another thing. :-D
applause to that lady,...now if only she partied with me :-k
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R-Tistic · Dec 2005
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MissJazzyAKA wrote:
I'm not big on clubs and never have been but I have gone a few times during my college years(dragged unwillingly). I admit to being the one who does not dance...**** me! I just can't get with strangers invading my personal space while I dance. That irritates the heck out of me.
How u an AKA ain't ain't been to the club that many times? Don't y'all throw parties at clubs a lot, or either go to support whatever fraternity y'all are close with?
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· Dec 2005
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^^^...The bruh here has a good point. What's good MissJazzy? I mean, I know it's a dissapointment to dudes to see you, and you not be dancing. :sad:
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ClassyWisdom08 · Dec 2005
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R-Tistic wrote:
MissJazzyAKA wrote:
I'm not big on clubs and never have been but I have gone a few times during my college years(dragged unwillingly). I admit to being the one who does not dance...**** me! I just can't get with strangers invading my personal space while I dance. That irritates the heck out of me.
How u an AKA ain't ain't been to the club that many times? Don't y'all throw parties at clubs a lot, or either go to support whatever fraternity y'all are close with?
What are you trying to say about AKA's? Just because I am an AKA does not mean that I enjoy the club environment. Also, there has been many parties and events that were not hosted at clubs.
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