aight so i'm braiding this dude hair, right, and we hear a lot of noise coming from the room next door. then this dude says,
"yea, last night was crazy, it was about 10 police officers and 8 girls over here trying to find this dude on some **** charges! Ol' boy next door brought two girls in the room, two hella **** girls, and then he left the room, then some otha **** on the floor went in his room and just took advantage of her ****! of course when her girls found out they all came over here, then police gon knock on my door! i wasn't in that hs!t..."
so now this is the talk of the campus. every boy i ask about says "that's what they get, they were stupid to get **** and come to the boys side of the dorm" but all the females say its messed up the girls got ****.
what do yall think?
^^^...Maybe if the lil boy was playing outside in a **** neighborhood, then he shouldn't be playing outside. Actually, he was only standing right outside of his door, not playing hopscotch in the middle of the street. So are u suggesting that people who live in the hood should never leave their homes? Maybe if you were walking to your dorm by yuorslef at 3 in the morning, then that wasn't smart. I know incidents at HU that have taken place in broad daylight or early evening. So is it only ok if it's at 3 am?If a dudes walking through a white neighborhood where cops are known to act shady then yes. So i'm guessing everytime one of your ancestors were lynching, ****, beaten, or discriminated against becuz of their skin color, they weren't "using wisdom". I'm not down playing ****, so much as I'm suggesting using wisdom. Was it wise to get **** around dudes you're not familiar with with a girl, who apparently doens't have your back? NO. Who's to say that she wasn't "familiar" with these dudes in question? Believe it or not, but in the majority of rapes that take place, the **** has an established relationship (friend, boyfriend, etc.) with the ****. And who's also to say that this girl didn't have her back? For all we know, she probably wasn't even conscious...or could have been getting assualted herself.
The fact of the matter is, we do NOT have all of the facts on this specific case. So i'm not claiming that this young lady is right or wrong. I was speaking under a general sense. And yes, although we live in a dangerous world, unless you are a psychic, you cannot alway predict your fate. It's real easy to say "be wise" or "be responsible", but trust me...it's also alot easier to get yourself into situations like this than you think. No matter how "wise" one attempts to be...things happen.
What the hell am I reading? Are yall serious. If I was some of yalls friends I would really question going places with you. **** is never half and half. If a girl does NOT give you permission to crawl inbetween her legs or is not in the CONDITION to give you permission keep pants up. This IGNORANCE is exactly why I do not attend parties at all any more.... :x
Maybe I'm readinit wrong....but who really said that **** is ok, and that **** is half n half n all that? It seems as if there are replies that say that the girl shoulda been smarter and that she coulda avoided it..but nobody said that she deserved to get **** like some of y'all are sayin. Some are even sayin that it may not have been **** because she might have known what she was doin and is now just tryin to cover it up.
^^^ ...pretty much.
No one had to say it was "ok". Of course no one is going to be bold enuff to actually condone the ****, but i do see several instances of people trying to justify it. It seems to me the the consensus is, "if the girl wasn't ****, she wouldn't have gotten ****". In my opinion, that's just a cop out. Wrong is wrong