Since there's been mad posts about what first attracts you to a dude, let's flip it around... instead of what first gets your attention, what keeps it? Once you meet a guy, what lets you know he's someone you would want to get to know more about?
And the other way around - what would immediately turn you off?
Just curious. Holla!
he's a keeper, when it seems like nearly everything about him just feels right.. not being picky or anything. i mean, even his faults.. he may not be fine, can't dress, talks too loud, and is a lil too arrogant but all of a sudden, i'm finding all that cute.. he's a keeper when he genuinely can make me smile... when he does lil things that makes him know his focus is on me and that he cares... when he's easy to talk to and i can feel completely comfortable around him.. when i know he'll understand and i can trust him with my most personal business because he respects me like that.. he's a keeper when i'm not around him but i'm completely happy doing something else and i realize i wish he was there to share the moment with me.
he falls off when we lose that connection.. when the look in his eyes is no where near what it was like when we first met.. when his intentions are off point and if he becomes offensive.. he falls off if i realize he's too caught up in the game - too materialistic, trying too hard to follow everyone else.. whan he starts disrespecting other women in his life.. he falls off if he starts playing childish games.
ohh -- and being a christian man is definately on the keeper list
hmmm i just realise that i'm not really a keeper for alot of you chicks...maybe i should change myself in order to make others happy...
nah..>>(tasia)
what am i talking about here? i'm just running out of stuff to type on this site?
hmmm i just realise that i'm not really a keeper for alot of you chicks...maybe i should change myself in order to make others happy...
nah..>>(tasia)
no.... you should just find a girl who likes lame guys.....
(just kiddin)
what am i talking about here? i'm just running out of stuff to type on this site?
These are all good and all but what about God? Wouldn't some of you want the guy to have some kind of spiritual background? :?
U read my mind. Cuz i was just about to post the same thing. That's definately #1 on my list...heck, that's ABOVE #1. And not just a guy who "believes in God". Heck, even Satan believes in him. It is a SUPER turn on when a guy has a personal relationship with Christ and is not afraid to show it/let people know it.
I've found when that area is on point, most of the other stuff usually falls into place.
Interests me: He would have to be sweet and Honest. I love a guy that is upfront with me. I like someone that is caring and shows me that they are into me. They have to treat me with the up most respect because I disserve to be treated good. He has to be ambitious because I am. Another that stands out with me is a guy that is down to earth easy to talk to. A guy has to be able to talk about anything with me. Oh yes, the guy has to be clean cut. I meaning nicly dressed and smelling good that is a plus. Another thing that getts my attention is a guy that is outgoing but not to out going though. I hate when some guys feel like that got to know everyone and be at everything, when will you have time for me. Just a past experience. Oh and my number one thing is for a guy to have a relationship with God that goes to church.
Turn offs: A guy that is full of himself thinking he is all high and mighty.
A guy that shows that he does not care much about himself. Oh and immature guys the ones that play these games. I don't have time for games I am not a little girl anymore. I hate when a guy says they going to do something and don't do it. Keep your word expecially if it comes to me. I don't like guys who party and go out and drink and stuff. I could go on.....
