Do you cheat on your girl/man? If so, what measures have you went through in order to keep your significant other from finding out? What is your overall view on cheating?
I dont cheat, and I feel like if you gotta cheat, why waste your time? Cheaters are either greedy, or not satisfied. Men used to be the dominant force when it came to cheating on the women, but since it's so difficult to satisfy a woman, (and since women can sometimes be greedy), women are being accused of cheating more than ever. I would like for everyone (especially the women) to get involved in this one (which is why this post is in the Yard).
I've never cheated on any of my significant others. I am a firm believer in KARMA. I have seen first-hand how karma comes back to bite one in the ****! Plus I know the feeling of being cheated on, it's a terrible feeling and I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy.
I love myself enough to stop dealing with cheating men right when I find out. I don't care what the reason/rationale was behind the cheating, I just want him gone so I can move on to the next. Females are sometimes way too forgiving; I know very few men who'll tolerate a cheating woman.
The only karma I like is GOOD karma; therefore, I always try my best to treat the one I'm with with the utmost respect and sincerity, knowing that someday it'll be returned to me 10 fold 8) How you treat people always comes back to you: if you do right by them, you'll get the same someday in return. If you don't do right by somebody, well, yall know the rest...
no i've never cheated but im gonna share my friend's situtation....he had been goin with this chick (lets call her shelly) for about a year and a half. but while he was going with shelly, he started to develop feelings for another gurl (lets call her kala) whom he had known since he was about 8 years old. he just kept tellin himself to pull it together and get over it since he really cared for shelly but no matter how hard he tried he couldnt knock the feelings he had for kala. little did he know that kala felt the same way about him that he felt about her....kinda like "brown sugar", childhood friends grown lovers. long story made a lil shorter...him and kala started to have their lil thing on the side...kissing and what not...nothin serious but still dishonest. but instead of breakin it off with shelly and gettin with kala he felt like he owed it to shelly to stay with her, especially since he was leavin in 2 months for Hampton. yea i know it sounds pretty unstable...cuz it is...but i guess it gets to a point where u just say "F*CK EVERYTHING", get ready for the consequences, and just do what you feel. personally i'd rather do something and regret it than to not do anything and wonder about what could have been....but that's just me
Plus I know the feeling of being cheated on, it's a terrible feeling and I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy.
I love myself enough to stop dealing with cheating men right when I find out. I don't care what the reason/rationale was behind the cheating, I just want him gone so I can move on to the next. Females are sometimes way too forgiving; I know very few men who'll tolerate a cheating woman.
The only karma I like is GOOD karma; therefore, I always try my best to treat the one I'm with with the utmost respect and sincerity, knowing that someday it'll be returned to me 10 fold 8) How you treat people always comes back to you: if you do right by them, you'll get the same someday in return. If you don't do right by somebody, well, yall know the rest...
