Why do Ladies say, "I have more guy friends than girls'

Astarr1 from Grambling, LA · Jul 2004

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It's not to say that i can't or wont get along with females i just choose to keep only a few in my company. I have about % real cool chicks that i can talkt to about anything but with that comes the arguments, all the emoyions and fights that guys just don't seem to bring. I mean honestly how many girl friends on average does any female have. I think to say that you have more than 5 or 6 then you don't really know those people has well as i would want to know my friends. AND i don't think that it's braggin about not being able to get along with females it just a statement of fact. And for me to sit here and say something is wrong with myself is.......... :roll: b/c i feel this way i am the way that i am either you live with it or not b/c im only here to satisfy myself and everyone else is an afterthought. Not to say im gonna hurt someone on purpose. Why change myself if im not asking them to change themselves. NOT EVERY CHANGE IS FOR THE BETTER.

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· Jul 2004

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DreamGirl1908 wrote:
I don't think some of these chics realize how silly they sound when they say this. A lot of them are basically bragging about not being able to get along with other females :? how is that a good thing? For a chic to say "I don't get along with other women", to me, is like saying "I don't get along with myself". These same chicks be blowing someone's "hatred" for them waaay out of proportion as well..."girls just be hatin on me all the time, that's why I can't get along with them" :roll: never do they stop and think that maybe something is wrong with them and their attitude.

OH MY GOD!! I FINALLY agree with you on something, :lol: ... anyways- I couldn't have said it better myself 8) .

cafe-aulait · Jul 2004

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Well real recognizes real... And it is not hard for me to see past phake and fony females... I never deal with them... So I rarely have run ins with other girls! SOOOO... Maybe you all who run into a lot of phony broads are phony yourselves. Just a thought. Maybe yall are the problems? Not embracing and developing your relationships with other women properly. Aw yea... Dudes are two-faced too!

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· Jul 2004

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Real people=real friends.....male or female. A male can be jus as phony as a girl--so the lesson i have learned-CHOOSE UR FRIENDS WISELY-dont matter who they are cuz some people in general are jus triflin.

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quannicab from Spring Hill, TN · Jul 2004

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chrittypie wrote:
Girls are a lot more critical and petty than guys are and that gets on ur nerves. Females are so quick to say "B*tch think she cute" and thats aggravating. Yeah it may sound bad but I do have a lot of guy friends not that I sleep with them all...but that I can relate to them and we just chill and talk. I do have some really close friend girls but other than that I chill with dudes cuz they are laid back and don't sweat the small stuff. I like that. Now if u see a female with all dudes and never ANY female friends, u might have to question that. More to come...

**AGREES WIT HER**

Blutifully Human from Washington, DC · Jul 2004

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quick question...If females friends are so petty, jealous, competitive, spiteful, etc...then what does that makes US...the females that are responding to this thread? Do u consider yourself to be petty & spiteful? Uhhh...prolly not. So why does it have to apply to the majority of the female population? My close circle of friends are all females and we are all like-minded so we don't have problems like that. If a chick crosses me wrong, i wouldn't look at it any differently from a dude crossing me wrong. Shady is shady...no matter who it's comin from

MsDee07 wrote:
Real people=real friends.....male or female. A male can be jus as phony as a girl--so the lesson i have learned-CHOOSE UR FRIENDS WISELY-dont matter who they are cuz some people in general are jus triflin.

Cosigns. And i'm feelin u too cafe-aulait. It goes both ways. I have guys that i'm "cool wit" or that are "tha homiez", but not alot that i am extremely close with. Mainly becuz most female/male friendships initiate becuz of some type of physical attraction or chemistry...or somehow leads to that in the long run. So it's hard to stay so mutual when there is flirtation goin on.

· Jul 2004

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lol...I use to have more male friends than female friends because I believed that females were TRIFLIN (still do)...but later on down the line...I figured out how TRIFLIN males can be as well...So I keep my "list" of friends VERY short & "I pick my friends like I pick my fruit".....me not liking females but I am attending Spelman...how ironic is that? :lol: :roll:

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· Jul 2004

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KenYaFeelMe? wrote:
quick question...If females friends are so petty, jealous, competitive, spiteful, etc...then what does that makes US...the females that are responding to this thread? Do u consider yourself to be petty & spiteful? Uhhh...prolly not. So why does it have to apply to the majority of the female population? My close circle of friends are all females and we are all like-minded so we don't have problems like that. If a chick crosses me wrong, i wouldn't look at it any differently from a dude crossing me wrong. Shady is shady...no matter who it's comin from

PREACH! 8)

Youngtarget · Aug 2004

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For a long time I did not have any female friends because they can be so petty at times. A friend is suppose to be someone who uplifts when you need lifting and check you when your out of order. and sometimes with females it seems like their hatin or trying to knock you from excelling. It was when I went to college, that I tried to even bother with female friendships, and in most cases I had to brake tides. only a selected few are my homies, but most girls are just to damn catty. Furthermore, I was always looked at as the little sister so it was never a problem chllin with ****. I was raise with class, so I was not sleeping with all of them. Also, I never carried myself like a **** so I never had to worry about people thinking that I was sleeping with the whole crew. :wink:

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