This is to my REAL MEN
If/when you become fathers PLEASE take care of your kids..Even if you slip up and have a kid with your girlfriend and she becomes your baby momma,and then ya cant stand her! (sorry) Take care of your lil ones...ESPECIALLY those who grew up without a father. You would understand the pain of having a DEADBEAT DADDY who doesnt care for you,tells you he's gonna take you here and there and never shows up...I'VE been there and still am there! my father does more for my brothers and ignores moi.....
And I see history repeats itself...My babydaddy doesnt care for HIS daughter and I dont want her growing up with hate for the dumb **** but ya know...
So anyway, that's all i got to say...DONT EVER SAY I AINT TELL YALL NOTHING :wink: :lol:
how bout the opposite end of the spectrum.. women who are so desperate to have a man provide for them that they intentionally get pregnant. pokin holes in prophylactics and whatnot. i've heard about groupies who get their gynecologists to inject them with **** out the used **** of NBA players and musicians. its crazy.. but they bear the same burden of responsibility as a whorish man. its too many ppl on earth already for all that foolishness!
how bout the opposite end of the spectrum.. women who are so desperate to have a man provide for them that they intentionally get pregnant. pokin holes in prophylactics and whatnot. i've heard about groupies who get their gynecologists to inject them with **** out the used **** of NBA players and musicians. its crazy.. but they bear the same burden of responsibility as a whorish man. its too many ppl on earth already for all that foolishness!
Wow. Gynecologists DO that? I wonder how much these girls pay or what the hell they are doing to get a physician to do that kind of ish.
But for the most part, I agree with what most people have said, that the father figure is very important in a child's life. Not just for the boys, but also for the girls as well.
i first read about it in an issue of Suede (that short-lived Essence spin-off!); & yep, in it there was an account of one young lady whose gyno travelled with her to the hotel room. [insert gag here].. but i think in general, since folk are becoming parents sooo much younger, there's an increased lack of responsibility in parenting.
thanks, i grew up in a single parent home with just me and my mother. I tured out to be a strong young man. I miss some things a kid can only get from a father. So no matter who i father a child wit ima always be there for my child because i wouldnt want them to have to grow up like me, although my mother provided all my needs and the majority of my wants. There are some things that only a father can provide.
But for the most part, I agree with what most people have said, that the father figure is very important in a child's life. Not just for the boys, but also for the girls as well. 
