ABORTIONS:ChildreN ARENT MISTaKES...excuse me for saying that, just sometimes they are unplanned. A number of my friends have had one and they are happy at the end that they had it taken care of so that they were able to complete school/highschool/college/work ext. But do uthink it should happen or should u just man up to your responsibilities or go thru wit the **** so your life wont be completely ruined and just regret it later. PLEASE SPEAK FREELY. NO MATTER IF YOUR FOR IT OR AGAINST IT DONT BE SCARED
I think people are entitled to their own opinions. I can personally say if I found out I was preganant today, I would be at John Stroger (Cook County) hospital aka the chop shop tomorrow with my $50 in hand. I know I am not able to take care of a child. Point Blank. I used to say if I got preganant I would have the baby but one of my good friends got pregnant and that scared the hell outta me. She was so sad and depressed and we tried to make her feel better but it was hard. She ended up getting an **** and she is sad sometimes but I think it'll be better for her in the end. Now what I don't agree with is people using the **** clinic as a **** method. My cousin's best friend has had over 5 abortions and she is only 19. That is ridiculous. She needs to get help but everyone makes mistakes. Please don't comment on something that you've never had to expirence because there are people on her that may have had abortions and you don't know what they've been through.
I respect girls in any decision yall make. If you want it; thats cool. If you dont; thats cool too. (I know not to get involved when it comes to girls and abortions :wink: , its none of my business unless i am involved)
The problem is that people want to have the benefits of being adults but simply don't want the resonsiblities. Why deny what you've created a chance to experience what life has to offer or the unconditional love that a parent gives a child??? If you can't care or provide,then adoption is always an option.
Ultimately, The blood will be on your hands.
And my last point: What if your momma aborted you, becasue she wasn't ready? Not to be talking about ya mommas or nothing, but when she laid her **** down....she was ready.
Can we say on f*cking point?! My mother conceived me at 18 and i'm damn glad that she owned up to her responsibility and kept me. Cuz if she didn't, then I wouldnt be here to type this right now.
And my last point: What if your momma aborted you, becasue she wasn't ready? Not to be talking about ya mommas or nothing, but when she laid her **** down....she was ready.
Can we say on f*cking point?! My mother conceived me at 18 and i'm damn glad that she owned up to her responsibility and kept me. Cuz if she didn't, then I wouldnt be here to type this right now.
Well as I have said in these type of threads before, I am very pro choice...and ima ALWAYS be that way...Personally Im tired as fukk of seeing young mothers who neglect their children, or when they have them out are always screamin at them or hittin them hard as sh*t for just being children...not misbehaving. Too many young mothers still wannna be teens and go clubbin, and out with the girls, and chasin after n*ggas...that aint fair to the children who dont have a responsible mother doing for them and takin care of them...Instead, you have the grandmothers of these kids raising them and it aint fair to them. My thing is, and I always say it, but its more selfish in my opinion to bring a child in this world you gonna neglect and not really want, and that child ends up suffering more in the end...instead of just having that **** and that fetus doesnt have to live to see what you would put it through.
Then some of yall are making the comments to live up to your responsibilities...whatever with that. If I got pregnant today, I would be at the clinic with no second thoughts. You know why??? I HAVE NO MONEY TO TAKE CARE OF A CHILD. PERIOD :!: :!: :!: I refuse to burden my family with a child because of my irresponsibilty. That is not fair to them. The best option for me right now in my life is to abort, because there is NOTHING I would be able to offer that child in his or her life right now.
People are gonna make mistakes, simple as that. I definitely dont agree with **** being used as a method of ****...cause thats just ridiculous...but If I know I am using a **** and contraceptives...and I end up pregnant...then I would have no choice but to terminate the pregnancy. I am OBVIOUSLY on **** for a reason...Granted, nothing is 100% but if I wanted to be pregant, I would just fukk raw...
But yea...people arent going to agree with this...and thats ok....cause I dont agree with just about everyone else up here who is ****. But thats how I feel.
^^^I appreciate the honesty u brought thru...................
and I can say I felt XACTLY the same as u................
until I had to make that choice, and I thought I had done something, etc, etc, etc................
I just wonder sometimes how people would react to this if they'd gone thru it.................
While I understand that people make mistakes, many people who have abortions didnt take the proper procedures to even go about preventing pregnancy. Use condoms religiously and take them pills same time everyday, or better yet patch it up once a week, and the chances are so slim, that if you do get pregnant you better keep it because that child was really, really meant to be. People want to sit on it raw and act like it's rocket science as to why they got pregnant.
While I understand that people make mistakes, many people who have abortions didnt take the proper procedures to even go about preventing pregnancy. Use condoms religiously and take them pills same time everyday, or better yet patch it up once a week, and the chances are so slim, that if you do get pregnant you better keep it because that child was really, really meant to be. People want to sit on it raw and act like it's rocket science as to why they got pregnant.
this is also true..............
and let's not forget about the ones who got pregnant to keep a man and it backfired....................
and the ones who THOUGHT they were ready until it hit them that they REALLY didn't want a baby, ESPECIALLY not with the man they were with.....................
but, it's NEVER rocket science as to how u get pregnant...............
we were ALL in health class that day when they gave away the free condoms.................
whether or not u wanna use yours is on you....................
