I've noticed that a lot of females think I'm not interested in them because I don't call them all the time..but I'm just not a phone person..I could give ya 1 60 minute phone conversation and after that..I'm done..I would rather text yo ****..
Ladies do you think I should change my ways and just call them every once in awhile or should I stay the same??
:arrow: it takes energy to maintain a decent conversation....i want to multi task and text messages are so much more convieniant
:arrow: i'd rather recieve a text saying "i'm thinking about you" rather than a phone call because i can saw AWWW then keep going on about my bizness
:arrow: if i do use the phone it's out of boredom or in the wee late night caking hours :wink:
that sounds like me. I mean, on the real...i can understand how a chick feels like a guy doesn't want her if he doesn't call. That happened to me before. The guy sent me a text out of the blue and i was like "i didn't even think u liked me" and he says "what would make u think that?" and i said "becuz we don't even talk!". But to be real, i'm not askin for some long drawn out convo. Just a lil "how ya doin?" every now and then to know u are concerned. Then we can both go about our bizniz.
:arrow: it takes energy to maintain a decent conversation....i want to multi task and text messages are so much more convieniant
:arrow: i'd rather recieve a text saying "i'm thinking about you" rather than a phone call because i can saw AWWW then keep going on about my bizness
:arrow: if i do use the phone it's out of boredom or in the wee late night caking hours :wink:
that sounds like me. I mean, on the real...i can understand how a chick feels like a guy doesn't want her if he doesn't call. That happened to me before. The guy sent me a text out of the blue and i was like "i didn't even think u liked me" and he says "what would make u think that?" and i said "becuz we don't even talk!". But to be real, i'm not askin for some long drawn out convo. Just a lil "how ya doin?" every now and then to know u are concerned. Then we can both go about our bizniz.
I am not a phone person at all!!!!!!!!!!!! When my ex boyfriend would call I would talk for about 5 minutes then I wouldnt have anything else to say. I told him that I wasnt much of a phone person so instead of calling me he would text message me things like "thinking of u" and stuff like that.
I don't think you should be calling her all the time, but call often enough, maybe every couple of days or so just to let her know you are interested. And if you don't feel like doing that, then do like Nahd said and just break it down and tell her you aren't much of a phone person.
I cannot stand talkin on the phone, Say what u gotta say, then let me go. After a while I kinda zone out and start watchin tv. People just talk to d@mn much about nothin.
